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chucklesthegirl

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found out recently that my ex mother in law is e-stalking me and has been spying on my posts on various sites (including this one) and forwarding links to my ex husband in attempts to somehow control my life (hiya, patty!).

i asked yi if she is insane and it gave me 61.1.6>29

this is a semi-serious reading....mainly wanted to give the old girl something to read while she was doing her stalking.

that line six sure sounds a lot like her though.

thank you in advance for reading :)

namaste!
 

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found out recently that my ex mother in law is e-stalking me and has been spying on my posts on various sites (including this one) and forwarding links to my ex husband in attempts to somehow control my life (hiya, patty!).

i asked yi if she is insane and it gave me 61.1.6>29

this is a semi-serious reading....mainly wanted to give the old girl something to read while she was doing her stalking.

that line six sure sounds a lot like her though.

thank you in advance for reading :)

namaste!

Hey is this Claritys answer to the Jerry Springer show :rofl: next thing we'll have Patty showing up too (hiya patty :D)

Is it 'spying' to read posts on a public forum ? All you have to do is rejoin and change your nick name...and disguise your questions slightly and patty will never know its you anyway

so are you actually asking us to give a pretty negative view of 61.1.6 >29 and hence insult patty even though we don't know her ?

Your question wasn't serious right...you posted the question to have a pop at patti...anyway its a really bad question isn't it...?


does 61.1.6 mean someones insane ?

thats just a silly question IMO

though it is quite a funny post
 

chucklesthegirl

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haha, thank you for that trojan! :)
it is spying when you use a person's old old username from another site, enter it into google and then attempt to ferret out secret information to use against that person in order to have some sort of control over their life.

but yes, it is a silly bad question. and you can offer an interpretation on the reading. i did actually cast that this morning asking that very question. so maybe yi is telling me to hush my mouth or it is agreeing with me...that 6th line REALLY does sound a lot like her....you just never met the woman so you have to take my word for it ;)

i may do that....just come up with another screen name and come back. hate to have to do that though just because she cannot mind her own business.

for the sake of the innocent readers seeking help with their similar queries, i will offer an interpretation on the 61.1.6>29

line 1 refers to the need for the need to remain calm and prepared under the most stressful situations. it also points to the importance of keeping your motives pure and not to try to be sneaky....for that would be oh so wrong.

line 6 refers to someone who squawks about making much ado about nothing and bragging on themselves like a wind up dodo bird just to have a bit of attention. like a demented person (we all have at least one in our lives) who goes about telling everyone how he, once oh so long ago, had the highest score on some otherwise pitiful test that no one else remembers and still goes on about it like it changed the world. it can also refer to someone who makes declarations about things that have no substance. a chicken little type.

hex 29 is about a repeated situation that you just have to keep dealing with continuously despite the fact that you're really sick and tired of it and want it to go away....hrm, much like a mother in law.

so you see, once again, yi has so accurately encapsulated the situation.

nothing pleases me more than to give patty (hello, dear) this personal reading.
:D
 
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Jer-ry! Jer-ry! Jer-ry!

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But seriously, I think the reading says to be you, regardless of the name you use, and "f'uh 'em if they can't take a joke" ~ Mick Jagger
 

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61: "True leaders consider judgements and postpone executions."

61.1: Preparedness leads to good outcome. If there is something else, one is not at rest.

61.6: "A rooster ascends to the skies. Self-righteousness leads to misfortune."

29: "Water comes repeatedly -- multiple danger. Developed people practice teaching by constant virtuous action."

Turn the impasse into a means of getting through a difficult situation.
 

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61.1
"If there are secret designs it is disquieting."

Paranoid.

61.6
"Cockcrow penetrating to heaven."

Delusional.

-rosada
 

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61.1
"If there are secret designs it is disquieting."

Paranoid.

61.6
"Cockcrow penetrating to heaven."

Delusional.

-rosada

are you being serious...or are you joking ?
 

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I'm saying that without too much stretch of the imagination you could see that interpretation in these lines.

-rosada
 

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61.1
"If there are secret designs it is disquieting."

Paranoid.

61.6
"Cockcrow penetrating to heaven."

Delusional.

-rosada

The danger, of course, is determining who is paranoid, who is delusional. Though, as Woody Allen said, "You're not paranoid if people really are out to get you."
 

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the situation is this....this woman who has nothing better to do, tried to dig up information on me via google using an old username that i used on another site, then turned around (without knowing if it was really me or not) and sent the links to the threads to my ex husband while our divorce was still underway.

she did this in some weird attempt to illuminate him of who i was dating and what my plans for the future are.

she has no say whatsoever in my life, what i do or even what was going on between me and my ex husband. she was very interested in the guy i am semi-involved with. why? what does that have anything to do with her?

there was no reason for her to do this, except she felt it necessary to butt in and spy on me.

if she was only concerned with her grandchild, i would understand. but she isn't. she hardly ever sees my child, and when she does spend time with her, she is not warm or loving. she is bossy and treats her in the manner of a dog she feels she has to train.
she doesn't care about my daughter. trust me, elias. this reading is about her and this situation.

i had no reason before i found out she had done this to think that anyone was after me. i was completely sickened to find out from my ex husband that she had done this months ago and is apparently still following me around the internet in hopes of uncovering some shocking tidbit.

all i can say is, i hope she gets a hobby and some sanity really soon. this sort of behavior is not only bizarre, but it shows a complete lack of respect for the privacy of others.
 

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if she was only concerned with her grandchild, i would understand. but she isn't. she hardly ever sees my child, and when she does spend time with her, she is not warm or loving. she is bossy and treats her in the manner of a dog she feels she has to train.

I hope you can get away from them.
 

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thank you. my daughter's father is a good dad. we had a tumultuous marriage and we didn't work as a couple and the separation was fraught with arguing and tension....but he is a good father. the fact that he knew about my wanting to leave before the divorce was finalized and didn't say anything really shows he is a nice person. he respected my privacy enough to tell his mom to leave me alone.

hopefully we will be able to maintain an amicable relationship for the sake of our daughter. he said if she and i did move away that as long as i made every effort to keep him in our daughter's life, he would try to accept it.

i am sorry for ranting about this. i just found out about it this past friday from my ex husband. he had the emails with the links to the threads. i just couldn't believe that someone would do that. it's sickening.
 

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i am sorry for ranting about this. i just found out about it this past friday from my ex husband. he had the emails with the links to the threads. i just couldn't believe that someone would do that. it's sickening.

Your ranting is quite understandable given the circumstance. The behavior you describe is edging into stalking behavior and it's legally useful to get it out into some sort of public record (such as this space) before it progresses.
 

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thank you. i realize that i probably sounded like a hysterical goon after i re-read my posts so i wanted to clarify what was going on.

it has been a rough year. just want to try to move forward and hopefully start over fresh. my daughter and i need that. and yes, i agree that doing this publicly is the best way to put an end to this sort of behavior on her part.

maybe she will see just how egregious her actions are and stop. maybe...i hope.
 

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Hi, Chuckles! Hi, Patty!

61.1.6 is a great reading to all of us, let's all keep its advice! :p
 

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