is the potential of this relationship worthwhile?

[clarionbodhi]

greetings friends,

i asked recently, as many do, the i ching about the potential of a relationship with "y".

i first met y during a visit to new orleans two months before hurricane katrina, this was back in '05. the storm dispersed many of the inhabitants of the city including y. later that winter i visited her for a week or so.

we met up agian in new orleans and we had a brief but wonderful relationship that following spring and summer. she then moved to ny for grad school and i remained in new orleans. since then we have stayed in contact and have maintained our friendship.

after speaking with her tonight i asked these questions of the i ching regarding the relationship:

question: what about y and i?
answer: 37 with very many changing lines (1,2,4,5) resulting in 50

question: what can i do to bring about a relationship between y and i?
answer: 2 with changing lines - 4,5,6 resulting in 12.

question: what is the potential for the relationship?
answer: 43 with line changing line 5 resulting in 34.

it seems to me the i ching is saying i needn't do anything besides being receptive at this time, that there is the strong potential for a relationship and some kind of family with y and that a decision will need to be made in order for this to work out for us?

do you think i am interpreting the reading accurately?

i asked one final question as well:
what guidance do you have for me regarding y. and i received 18 changing to 31.

over all the i ching seems to be telling me that it is worthwhile and i have homework to do

thank you for any advice you may have :bows:

~m

 

[willowfox]

question: what about y and i?
answer: 37 with very many changing lines (1,2,4,5) resulting in 50

Well it shows strong ties exist between the two of you, so let let continue to simmer and thus see what develops.

question: what can i do to bring about a relationship between y and i?
answer: 2 with changing lines - 4,5,6 resulting in 12.

Nothing, let the situation develop naturally without forcing or interfering. Patient and being discreet are the orders of the day.

question: what is the potential for the relationship?
answer: 43 with line changing line 5 resulting in 34.

Keep the faith and the potential is great indeed.

i asked one final question as well:
what guidance do you have for me regarding y. and i received 18 changing to 31.

The lines suggest that if you have made any mistakes in your approach, attitude etc, now is the time to correct yourself. While Hex 31 is about courtship, and you know how to do that, so do it.

 

[clarionbodhi]

thank you willowfox