is there genuine potential for a fulfilling & nuturing relationship with x?

[cheche]

hello,
i'm writing here on a subject that has been concerning my head and my heart for a while now...
i have been in a relationship for the past 7 months with someone, we have now separated yet there are still strong feelings.
the relationship has been very up and down and has engendered some serious problems that seem to stem from things very deep within us both. it is quite complicated.
from my own side i have issues about trust, in terms of motivation and intentions, concerning x (his) ...
55 seems an ambiguous hexagram to me in terms of being positive or negative. is it saying that there is an abundance of potential and energy for the future? is it saying that the relationship has already peaked in terms of what it has to offer us?
i would really appreciate some insight on this heagram as an answer to my question,
just before drawing this hex i asked the question, what do i most need to focus on with regard to my relationship with x, and the i ching gave me
29.5 changing into 7.
thanks for any helpful insights you can give me ...

 

[lloyd]

Hi Che

some serious problems that seem to stem from things very deep within us both ... it is quite complicated from MY OWN side i have issues about trust, in terms of motivation and intentions

29 Let both heart (and mind) prevail in finding moral/ethical guidelines.
Line 5 means that in the face of difficulties you should not lose your trust in yourself. You have to think things over a bit. Your (central 5) potential does not reach the rim of the well where it can be of use to others.
7 indicates common strength, not individual force.
55 is about broadminded civility.

What I read is that love is there for all to share, you among them; not something to be internalized by whoever. So, open up, maybe?

 

[cheche]

hi lloyd,
thanks for your response.
i decided to rise above my fears and follow my heart.
to have confidence in myself,
and in him
to simplify
to consider that love is not a definable finite thing,
we are back together, have spent a beautiful couple of weeks together where it feels as though our troubles have served us well in reinforcing our friendship and defining our boundaries more.
It is a continual learning process.
55 - use the abundance well to focus on healthy potentials and actualities,
to look to the abundance in ourselves and in others

"What I read is that love is there for all to share, you among them; not something to be internalized by whoever. So, open up, maybe?"

thanks i liked this very much.
we are both trying to open ourselves up. respectfully.

 

[lloyd]

Sounds good
Thanx for letting me know.