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justa

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Hi!
I've been invited out by a man I know vaguely. He is divorced and a father of two. He invited me in a birthday card he gave me and made a point of saying he'd like to meet me with or without my daughter, whatever I was comfortable with. Yesterday by chance he met my daughter when we were amongst the same large group having coffee. He made an effort talking to her and later texted me suggesting we met up with him and his kids when they come to stay with him next week. I feel it's better to get to know him a little first before we bring all the children into the situation. especially since I don't want to introduce someone into my childs life only for them to dissappear again.
I am quite confused about him as I had no idea he liked me.
I was quite badly hurt a while back by a man and this has left me wary but I am not sure if he is all he seems.
I asked the Yi 'Please tell me clearly what his motive is in asking me out?
I recieved Hexagram 15 lines 3/5/6 changing to Hexagram 20
This seems positive in some ways and a bit scary in others.
Then I asked 'Please tell me clearly what he ultimately wants from me?'
I recieved Hexagram 44 lines 1/2/3/4/5/6 changing to 24.
There seems to be so many conflicting messages and opinions in this. Does it mean that his intentions are not honourable and he only wants to sleep with me? Can't make out the real meaning with all the lines changing, but 24 seems quite good, doesn't it?

Please Help all input appreciated!!!
Thanks so much guys
 

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Why'd he ask you out?
15.3.5.6 > 20
A modest desire to get to know each other better.

What he ultimately wants from you?
44.1.2.3.4.5.6 > 24
Sounds like he has a fantasy about you that he would like to turn into a reality.

Sounds pretty innocent to me, but I agree it would be better strategy to go out with him with out the kids first.
 

justa

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Oh, thanks Rosada! What do you mean by fanatasy? Like a crush maybe?
thanks again x
 

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'Please tell me clearly what his motive is in asking me out?
I recieved Hexagram 15 lines 3/5/6 changing to Hexagram 20

Obviously he has a thing for you and he is being very down to earth and modest in the way that he is asking you out, there is nothing untoward here.


Then I asked 'Please tell me clearly what he ultimately wants from me?'
I recieved Hexagram 44 lines 1/2/3/4/5/6 changing to 24.

What he ultimately seems to want is companionship/friendship and therefore a nice and enjoyable time together.
 

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The poem from the "Yi Lin", which refers to 44 > 24, says:

"There are joined pao bottle gourds and the same lao pan,
And Ji and Jiang family occupy the same dwelling."

The first line refers to ancient marriage ceremony of drinking from joined nuptial wine cups and eating from the same plate, while the second line obviously speaks about two families living together. So I think his intentions are honest and serious.

In another edition of YL there is one more additional line to the poem, which says,

"So they enjoy in the long life for a long time."

HTH
 

justa

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Blimey!
Thanks guys, so it does seem that he is ok and that he maybe quite likes me a it!
Well if I can pin down the ex to do a spot of babysitting then I shall let hime take me out.
 

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