It is too late for us? 58.3.4 to 5

[lalafree]

Hey there!

my recent post was about me accepting a job to the other side of the world after a break up!

this was the post (just for your record)
http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?21114-58-6-what-do-you-think-about-this-line

Now we got in touch again and i felt still something going on..

I asked:
It is too late for us?
58.3.4

I now it is lot of work to rebuild a relationship ..
But my question is really about if is too late to do that.. if we missed already our opportunity!

What do you think about the relating hexagram 5.
if we want, if we decide...there is still time?

 

[taoscopy]

That's the 19.2 you got, he's fighting back, but in a nicer way than the one I warned you about.

Anyways, what the Yi suggests is that he wants to have you for his personal pleasure and does not care one bit about you.

The decision

58 - Attraction

Wait before comitting oneself. A simple proposal is enough. One wants to know what the other desires before responding.

3 - One commits themself reluctantly.

4 - Profiteers want to limit the response to the most modest demands.

In the making

5 - Patience

Something is coming, look forward to it with confidence rather than going and see.
http://taoscopy.com/en/consultation/776978/

You wanted to stop your relationship:
->One commits themselves reluctantly.

He does not want that because he want to profit from you:
->Profiteers want to limit the response to the most modest demands.

The outcome is 5, he's expecting you to fall for him again, he must know you fairly well to be that confident but you can evolve.

I don't see anything that looks like love here, he's just using you for his personal comfort in my opinion.

 

[Tim K]

58.3, Legge: Shows its subject bringing round himself whatever can give pleasure.
There will be evil.
58.3, Daniels:
You seek contrived and harmful pleasures.


58.4, Legge:
Shows its subject deliberating about what to seek his pleasure in, and not at rest.
He borders on what would be injurious, but there will be cause for joy.

58.4, Daniels: Decision is difficult. Choose higher pleasures.

Let him go, he is like a bad habit of yours. Planning for joy to be had in the future - is the wrong way, joy just comes. Forced laugh is fake..