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goddessliss

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Good morning or evening as the case may be,

so I have met a man and we really like each other and feel we have a great connection, however...he shows me very little physical affection but obvious likes it a lot when I show him affection.
so I asked him about it and he said he is well aware that he has a problem showing affection, it has nothing to do with how he feels and he does desire to show me affection and said he just doesn't know why he doesn't/can't.
So I asked What is with his lack of affection Hex 50.1>14

Does this mean he is waiting for how the relationship is going to pan out before he shows more affection (it is only a very new relationship) making sure there is no 'rubbish' that needs to be cleared first before he lets 'possession' take place in our relationship.
 

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The Cauldron, 50 is auspicious for both love and marriage as is 14. So, there is no problem there. The first moving line simply says that you must make a clean sweep of everything. Moreover, a third party might appear, a relative, a lover, someone, but even so the love and marriage, if it what you want, will be okay.
 
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goddessliss

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Thanku icastes - not sure about the third party bit though could it be a past situation?

Melissa
 

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50.1(general): when you scrape the ting's underbelly you bring out the memory of everything that's been cooked in it: people think they need to get rid of that but it is what actually makes cooking nutritious . . of course learning its ways can be a dirty or difficult job -sometimes it might even feel an undermining thing to do. 14 is about shared resources: powerful ground (heaven below) manifested and distributed (fire above) -I often compare this to the 8th house in astrology which concerns inherited issues and expressions of intimacy (soul kitchen's stuff)

50.1(specifics): maybe he feels that him not showing affection to you is a minor thing in face of other stuff you share, or maybe some part of his feels undermined by opening up this way, or it brings to the surface past trouble and fears of being used -or maybe the same stands for you too . . what ever it is, working thru it bears great potential for 'consolidating one's fate/By making one's position correct'


best of luck to the both of you!
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rodaki - thku that's awesome!

50.1(specifics): maybe he feels that him not showing affection to you is a minor thing in face of other stuff you share, or maybe some part of his feels undermined by opening up this way, or it brings to the surface past trouble and fears of being used

I think both here, cause we do share such an amazing thing we just don't know what to think sometimes and my impression is the lack of affection comes from the basis of fear but I really just wanted to check with Yi and I am glad I did cause it and you guys gave me the confirmation I needed to perservere with this relationship.
He is not the easiest person to deal with so I am glad there is also actual potential shown in Hex 14 and hopefully my patience will be worth it.
Blessings
Melissa
 

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hey, you're welcome :)
hope things will get better for the both of you real soon!
 
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The Cauldron, 50 is auspicious for both love and marriage as is 14. So, there is no problem there. The first moving line simply says that you must make a clean sweep of everything. Moreover, a third party might appear, a relative, a lover, someone, but even so the love and marriage, if it what you want, will be okay.

Follow up at the moment is - we did make a clean sweep of everything, so we are at the very beginning of a new beginning and the third party was actually an invested interest in a lovable, but boisterus 18month old puppy dog!

blessings Melissa
 

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