Legal proceedings

[amilex]

Hi everybody,

I am torn between two choices in situation that i am left to depend on decisions of people which i am trying to trust, but i am also a little worried with the fact that they are reluctant to explain progress of the situalion in detail, and when they do give answers those seem very evasive, and contradictory. I asked Yi for guidance:

What would my situation look like if i got a lawyer:
54.5>58
It looks as a mixed answer, or maybe it means that my situation is not as bad as i see it and that if i do get a lawyer it will cause a breach of trust between me and those people, and worsen my situation, as they are the ones that make decisions anyway.

What would my situation look like if i did not get a lawyer:
1.5,6>34
Does that mean that i should trust them and the outcome will be best overall?

I don't know, i would greatly appreciate all of your insights.

Thank you very much in advance.

 

[themis]

Hello,

Your story sounds vaguely familiar. Based on the casting and the circumstances, I would strongly
urge you to engage the services of a lawyer ... promptly. Hex. 54.5 is the most auspicious of all,
it speaks of 'supreme burgeoning'. Even the resulting/potential Hex (58) is positive in that it
indicates an openness to interaction and communication. The pertinet lines in Hex 1 suggest that
at first there will be little or no involvement on your part, thereafter you'll experience a favourable
period, the outcome will be that of 'an overbearing dragon' possessing repenting ... would be a pity.

Do take necessary steps to ensure matters are handled honestly and efficiently. Do consult the old
sage before deciding on which lawyer to hire.

 

[ginnie]

What would my situation look like if i got a lawyer:
54.5>58

The auspice says 'good fortune.' You'd have to deal with people who have different values from yourself, but this would not be a bad thing in this case.

What would my situation look like if i did not get a lawyer:
1.5,6>34

No. Not good. You'd go too far or overextend yourself and the result would be a collapse of some sort.

Maybe trying to do this without a lawyer would just take too much out of you. You don't need to rely on your own knowledge and strength when it comes to legal matters. That's why people go to law school for years and years ...

 

[amilex]

Thank you both for help and insight. I hestitate, because hiring a lawyer seems to me like declaring a war, i would, rather, like to be able to believe that people still have the ability to "do the right thing". Unfortunately, it seems that may not be the case, and i will have to find somebody with values different from my own to fight the fight my soul is to weak to bear.
Thanks again.

 

[themis]

Finding a competent lawyer would be the right decision. Don't worry about your conscience ... they don't seem much concerned about ethics. Ensure that all that's due to you by right will be yours, one day. The prevailing situation is typical when it comes to inheritance ... on screen and in real life.

 

[pocossin]

There may be more than two choices. If the matter is a legal issue involving property, then you could talk with an accountant, perhaps the one who does your taxes. If the issue is probate, you could ask to speak with the person handling the case in the Clerk of Court's office.

You need to discuss this with an informed person.

58 The Image

Lakes resting one on the other:
The image of the Joyous.
Thus the superior man joins with his friends
For discussion and practice.

The persons now handling this matter may be unable to give you definite answers because the outcome of legal proceedings depends on judgments beyond their control. You may be able to get the assurance you need without a lawyer, but if you believe your interests are not being respected, then get a lawyer.

 

[amilex]

Thank you Friends.
There are truly issues that they may not have the answer to yet, as there are some proceedings that require court decision indeed. But, there are also simple issues to which lack of answers, in my humble opinion, points out to simple lack of will to cooperate, and therefore potential "hidden and harmful intentions" as well as, lack of respect. Also, i was cooperative and trusting, and i noticed a strange shift in their attitude from friendly and supporting, in the beggining, when they needed my help, to distant, and domeneering now. I still have not found an advisor. I did many readings since, and most of answers advised to "see the great man", but i don't know who The Great Man is.
Thank you all for being here.:bows:

 

[themis]

Best to find a lawyer asap. Sue them in court, put all your suspicions into writing, back it up with
what evidence you have. Take prompt action.

 

[amilex]

Thank you Themis. I think it would be way too early to even think of taking anything to court, and i sincerely hope there will be no reason for such action after proceedings are over. My attitude is based solely on my observations, and personal impressions. I am aware that things like that take time, and i don't want to hurt anybody by acting on suspicions, as my knowledge of the whole subject is very limited to the date. I do, however, need an advisor with experiance in such matters, who would be able to listen to my observations and give me an objective opinion as to weather my fears are, in fact, justified, and confirm that i do need to hire a lawyer. Any ideas how to find out what Great Man is Yi talking about?

 

[ginnie]

Any ideas how to find out what Great Man is Yi talking about?

If I were you, I'd ask a number of people and see what they say. Sometimes someone who is not a lawyer can also be helpful, either because they had the same experience or because they have a more direct way of communicating. Or they might be more willing to take the time to talk with you. The Great Man could be anybody.

 

[themis]

Amilex, you could start by seeking free legal advice online. Just type in 'free legal advice' and you're
sure to land on a solicitor able and willing to advise you. Whatever the case, action on your part is necessary cos their motives are dubious, actions suspicious and info. is being withheld from you.
Alternatively, in your online or hard copy phone directory you could find an organization which provides legal advice for a small fee. You may end up paying just bet. 2-5 per cent of the fee a lawyer would charge for just one consultation.

 

[pocossin]

Another source of advice could be your bank. Bank employees have a wide experience of financial matters and probably could advise you or point you to someone who could.