Letting go of an unhealthy relationship: what do I need to right now? hex 50.3 to 64

[dancingfox]

Hi all,

Seems like I am repeating an unhealthy relationship pattern and I doing the best I can to let go. What do I need to know right now? Hex 50.3 to 64

This feels very encouraging. The vessel is being remade in line 3 and that is how I feel right now. Not ready to connect with others, not ready to be open for a more healthy relationship but this is temporary. Rain on all sides lessens regrets, my tensions will dissolve and I will awaken from this dorment state.

Any other insights woud be most welcome

 

[rosada]

64. Before Completion could be referencing your awareness of not being ready to commit.
50.3 refers to the handles, the ears, being altered. You may be being advised to note how you listen to others. Have you been dating folks who were themselves not ready to commit? Did you ignore the signs? Or perhaps receiving this line means that now knowing you aren’t looking at people in terms of whether they would be suitable romantic partners you will be able to “hear” better what your friends are really all about.

 

[dancingfox]

Hi Rosada

Yes I have been dating a man who wasn't ready to commit. I did ignore the signs for a while, but made a clean break with him a couple of weeks ago.
I am longing for a relationship but somehow I am not ready to commit, this is probably linked to me attracting unavailable men.

I take the ears being altered as me working on myself or in your words on how I listen to others, yes. I will meditate on bc it does ring true on many levels.

Thank you!

 

[moss elk]

What do I need to know right now? Hex 50.3 to 64

You were cooking up a meal to share with that person.
The other person wasn't able to appreciate it.
(the ears altered, the food meal/gift wasted)

Now is the time to move on from the resentment and let new blessings (rain) come. It's a hopeful line for the future.

 

[dancingfox]

Hi Moss Elk

Yes it is Not feeling to groovy at this particular moment... but holding on to what I know is the right thing for me.