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thanks a lot sparhawk!
you mean the I Ching is trying to give me "fake" comfort in a hopeless situation? Could be, but why is the I Ching giving me a mirage? If only I could settle with the fact that it is definitely finished with n I could maybe find a real relationship. I would like the I Ching to tell me in a clear way but I agree, not easy, if I asking the same question in different ways for years and years...
Any other ideas?
However, I am puzzled by the fact that only wrong guys are crossing my road...almost scary
Plupp, I would first try to dissolve that attitude that it is "hopeless," and your reading about how to find a relationship is interesting. 37 is about family, home, hearth. You mentioned using the internet and that is something you do from the home. I would advise to keep that fire burning,
dont be worried about the "wrong guys" coming along, just experiment and use the experiences to help you decide the kind of person you would like to let in. Be particular, but don't be afraid to meet and greet online. From the safety of your home, you can actually be quite discerning about who you would eventually meet in person.
The 37 changes to 59, so from home, remain focused on your intention( the kind of man you want) and then break the ice, ride the waves that come.
Dear Plupp...i think the reading is very encouraging, just the opposite.
17 is an affirmative for going after what you seek, line 1 is to mingle and get to know people......line 2 could refer to the guy you just met, professor cheapo, let him go and meet someone more to your liking
47 is about self--inspired gloom, it is a hexgram that often seems to say "get over yourself" .....it is the "oh no, it's awful, oh no, it's hopeless" LOL. so the yi is saying, c'mon, get over yourself, take some action, follow...........
and yes, i would lay off the questions about relationship now until you get one brewing, otherw ise you will exhaust yourself! keep your heart steady and keep being gentle with yourself.
Clarity,
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