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Hello all, hope holidays were good for everyone. Mine was good, despite some family fighting, and I am approaching the new year with high spirits, positive thoughts and a hopeful outlook.

So, back to my little saga. I emailed Thomas last Wed about New Years. A few days ago I asked how would he respond and got 45, future prospects for us 1.5 to 14, seems encouraging but no response yet. Of course he could be off visiting his family, may not have even read the email yet, but I went ahead and asked Yi what to do about him and got 53 unchanging. Ok, persevere, but gently. Asked if I should email again and got 37.6. Should I call and got 31.4.

Is 37.6 saying yes, go ahead, or is the fact that this hex is often referred to as family telling me that is where he is and I should wait longer. Kircher seems a definate go, but Wilhelm is not so clear. 31.4 seems to say think about it more, maybe give him more time or plan better what I will say or get advice from someone (well, thats why I'm here).

So, what do you guys think? Based on the answers I got, email, call or wait longer??? Btw, ever since the solstice I am feeling so much clearer, more centered and more positive, which fits exactly with the Yi and Tarot readings I was having before. I don't know what happened, but something in the universe and inside of me has shifted. Even my mom commented about it. We are at the mall yesterday, yes I went out the day after Christmas, it was wall to wall people, and I had not eaten. She was expecting me to get irritable. I'm claustorphobic and normally hate crowds and I can get testy when my blood sugar drops, plus we were in a time crunch, yet I was calm, feathers completely unruffled. I worked my way through as if I had not a care in the world, which I hadn't. Even with Thomas, I already have a back up plan for New Years Eve if he says no. And I have a lot of support. My family and friends all have their fingers crossed for me. With that and all the support I get here, how I could be anything but positive
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Hello Seeker,

I am a newbie, but I have read some of your threads, and I would like to give it a try and share my opinion with you. I hope my input is helpful...

To me, 53 speaks about gradual progression, measured actions and without being impulsive. This is what you have done so far, by sending him that email. I wonder whether taking another step (email/call) without him having responded to the first one would be interpreted as impatience and thus take you one step back?

Email again? 37.6 talks indeed about family, and about the role of each member of the family. For the family (or taken more broadly, for the situation at hand) to be harmonious, each member of the family has to act accordingly to his / her role. Situation thus should be favorable by adopting a "yin" attitude, a feminine attitude. To quote Candid in a thread about my relationship question, "this flies in the face of modern feminism", but the yin attitude would be to wait. In that context, line 6 maybe evoques Thomas role in the situation, ie speaks about letting him play his part, which in the end should bring good fortune.

As for calling, 31.4, I would agree with you, as Influence over others should not express itself as a conscious and willed effort to get them to do what we wish so badly they would do. "Through practising such conscious incitement, one becomes wrought up and is exhausted by the eternal stress and strain" (quote from a website on i-ching)... So again, wait...

Beyond i-ching, this is also what i would personally advise you to do, although I know from personal experience how unpleasant it is to hear that advice and how difficult it is to follow it when one wishes so dearly to be reunited with the person in their heart and mind... I really hope the wait will be worthwhile and he contacts you with a positive response the sooner the better!!!

Warm thoughts,

Nina
 
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You have done really well for a newbie, much better than I did when I started. In reading Dennings interpretation I can see that yours appears right on the money. 53, in particular, the very first thing she says is patience is the keynote. Both 37 and 31 are also saying not to try to force anything, if it is supposed to work out, it will. Everything I am getting is very positive, I just need to be patient, not my forte. From what I have been getting, my feeling is that something very positive is coming in this situation, but whether or not that includes New Years I am not sure, though I guess it shouldn't matter. However, I did ask how likely he was to say yes, though not sure if that is a question Yi can answer, but the hex was 63 unchanging.

The synchronicity I am seeing now is really interesting. All along I have felt that Yi was telling me to wait, be patient, forge ahead, but not to give up. It also told me to work on myself, and here I am, better, stronger...faster, oh look, I'm the bionic woman
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Sorry, couldn't resist. Anyway, I think it is a transformation I had to make to clear the way for anything good to come to me. Before, I was so beaten down, so desparate and clingy, it is unlikely a relationship would have worked, with Thomas, or with anyone else. I'm seeing 23 and 24 in a different light now, like the caterpiller emerging as the butterfly.

And hindsight is 20/20. When I got 47 recently I took it as being about me, interpreting line 4 as being about my hesitating. But I got this hex with lines 2,4,6 recently about Thomas, and now I think it is his progression. If you think about it, line 2 could be about his breakup, line 4 his current response to me and his situation in general, and line 6 as something he is moving towards, breaking the ties that hold him back and moving on. I could be wrong, of course, this could be about me and telling me I will resolve this and move away from it. But with the other hexes I am getting, I don't think so. Aw well, only time will tell. till then, onward and upward.
 

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I'm happy my input helped you. I very much hope 63 means a positive answer for New Year, but as you said yourself I am not sure Yi can answer in that way. I am tempted to say that 63 means that whatever happens about it, it is actually a state of equilibrium, everything being in its right place for now. Wherever you will be for New Year, you would feel right about it. That's really what I wish you!
 

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