lodger leaving 16 -

[hopex]

Hi - I have been taking time dwelling on a casting from the weekend

asking what i was not seeing about my current situation that i needed to
for clear perspective and I got 40.1.4>19

line 4 resonated with me that indeed in these low times i have no real
friends - the associations are not good.

i am away working and a spanish guy in my flat was bullying me to let his
sister stay in my room as she visits london. In the end i gave a flat out no.
To which he has replied he is moving out in 2 weeks and wants his money
back. The agreement is 4 weeks and he has not paid december or january
bills. His room is cheap andd he has the run of the flat when i am away.
I asked the Yi for its judgement on this situation and got 16 unchanging

any ideas - it did not seem pertinent except in sense I am glad he goes as
the neighbours beneath have complained about him late at night and the
other lodger says he puts the dishwasher on at 1 am - he works in a restaurant


today i have had several threatening texts - like call me in 10 minutes or else
- my boss is a lawyer (last time he threatened me with his dad the doctor)

i am sick of aggression - his is the last straw. I havent responded yet I am looking
at hexagram 16 to see if the Yi gave tips to help with this:bows:

 

[Trojina]

Hi - I have been taking time dwelling on a casting from the weekend

asking what i was not seeing about my current situation that i needed to
for clear perspective and I got 40.1.4>19

line 4 resonated with me that indeed in these low times i have no real
friends - the associations are not good.

i am away working and a spanish guy in my flat was bullying me to let his
sister stay in my room as she visits london. In the end i gave a flat out no.
To which he has replied he is moving out in 2 weeks and wants his money
back. The agreement is 4 weeks and he has not paid december or january
bills. His room is cheap andd he has the run of the flat when i am away.
I asked the Yi for its judgement on this situation and got 16 unchanging

any ideas - it did not seem pertinent except in sense I am glad he goes as
the neighbours beneath have complained about him late at night and the
other lodger says he puts the dishwasher on at 1 am - he works in a restaurant


today i have had several threatening texts - like call me in 10 minutes or else
- my boss is a lawyer (last time he threatened me with his dad the doctor)

i am sick of aggression - his is the last straw. I havent responded yet I am looking
at hexagram 16 to see if the Yi gave tips to help with this:bows:

I think you are well rid of him. Thast what the 40.1.4>19 says to me. 40 is release from tension...40.1 there is no problem here


40.1 reminds me of when I was a kid in needlework lessons that I hated. I kept getting knots in the thread and I remember taking it up to the teacher and she looked at me and gave the thread a quick tug and said 'there is no knot'...and there wasn't, she'd made it vanish

This is a picture of your situation, there isn't a knot here. 40.4 shows you looking at the situation trying to untie it like you have untied other knots before...let go of that. Let this guy go. Whatever he threatens means nothing (hex 16) its all a bit of hot air, no substance. I see these readings as you can just let this go...let him go..whether he pays you or not just let him go and don't worry. Theres no cause to worry here

 

[hopex]

Trojan thank you - I am so glad you responded.

I took on board what you said about going straight to
SR without sitting with it and working with it on my
own. It was timely as I have enjoyed this casting 40.1.4>19
speaking to me. I looked up on it

Your knot example is nice also - and you know what - I
feel ok. I asked for all the pressure to go (prayed) so I
could recuperate 40.1

line 4 also helping see that people i lose now are in truth
no loss to me. Namaste

 

[sooo]

I think 16 expresses the arousal created by this situation, within your tenant and in yourself. 19 would be, to me, expressing taking charge. Initially it would appear that it refers to you, however in the face of personal threats mixed with ultimatums, you might consider that 19 could refer to law enforcement authorities. Imo, threats like this should never be taken too lightly, especially when tempers are aroused. This is one big toe you need deliverance from, and the friends which come that you can trust should have adequate authority to deliver you. I would not text retorts back to him, but do save his threatening texts as your evidence. It should be enough to enlist the help you need.

 

[hopex]

Wow - thank you sooo much !

 

[hopex]

PAIN pain pain

this has escalated - the lodger threatened again and indeed has gone onto
threaten my son which is a no no no no!!

I am back home now and have informed the police and his work that police
will be talking to him on his return.

I asked what about these texts and got 2.4>16

which seemed odd so I asked please tell me what will happen now I have told
the police and his work manager

got 26.5.6>16 which was cheering but I am still afraid for my son

help appreciated:bows:

 

[Trojina]

PAIN pain pain

this has escalated - the lodger threatened again and indeed has gone onto
threaten my son which is a no no no no!!

I am back home now and have informed the police and his work that police
will be talking to him on his return.

I asked what about these texts and got 2.4>16

which seemed odd so I asked please tell me what will happen now I have told
the police and his work manager

got 26.5.6>16 which was cheering but I am still afraid for my son

help appreciated:bows:

How old is your son ? Anyway don't get scared get angry...not that the reading says this but you sound like you are cowering from some eegit who knows how to text thats all...BIG DEAL its just hot air..hes not got a leg to stand on has he. If he did anything you have enough evidence to get him sent down....



I would be furious in your shoes...its your house.....for godsake ...

I haven't addressed the readings but they are not saying "hey Hopex you are in danger..." thats for sure


I think for me rage would overcome fear and I'd go and shout at him until he wanted to leave

The reading does not advise this BTW....but don't cower away there...an unintelligent person who is able tosend texts isnot up to much really,,and 26.5 showed he is already kinda restrained.


How come you always have problem tennants ? Don't you interview them ? This isn't the first time you had problems with tennants is it ?


2.4 its out of your hands now, let the police handle it...don't go around and shout which is what i would do
but in general you gotta get more of a handle on this renting scenario haven't you ? You seem to live in fear of your tennants for one reason or another...

 

[hopex]

Yes Trojan - its all coming to an end now - I am not cut
out for it.

His g.friend showed up and I sure shouted her out - so
glad to know thats a normal reaction.


Son 28 nearly but he works alone and its his own little
business he set up as a student...he's a really really
good kid.:bows:

 

[Trojina]

I see. I linked to this thread in another thread as part of discussion, hope you don't mind....here http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?t=14258

 

[hopex]

I know this is a pain

last week I woke to a text saying he would cost me more money
- which I didnt know how to take but fearing he would clear out my
place I called the police and told them my concerns.

When I arrived I called his work (he had threatened me with his
boss) to let him know the police would attend when he returned
- and when would that be.

A female walked in the house using his key - I asked her to go home
and come back when he was there. I asked how she had got in - she
held out the key which I took. She went to get him

The police arrived and said they saw no threat - that his english was
poor - it isnt

He left then (but he had a place lined up thats why I thought he would
take things)

He has contacted a government agency - I have written my part
I asked Yi how will it go now

13.5 > 30

 

[dragona]

oh, I have somehow missed this thread...13.5 is very positive indeed...there is fiery feelings, but fire needs to cling in order to sustain....to me it looks like an settlement.
hope it is.

 

[hopex]

Thank you Dragona - I considered sending this gov
agent man more information such as this lodger not
leaving forwarding address though police told him to -
and his threats to our business and having to tell site
security - Yi responded 26.6>11

so I have done that and hope I will have peace