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seeker61

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Hello All!

My question to the I-ching was regarding a lost love situation. Very hard to let-go of feelings for this person. We have had two go arounds (were together than broke up) but now haven't heard from him in a while...was told by several readers that by cutting emotional ties with him that he will come back, feeling the urgency of losing me forever...I asked the I-ching if using Walnut Bach Flower essence (supposed to help with this) would enable me to cut ties with him and ultimately bring him back to me..... I got 55. Abundance with the red changing lines 3 and 4 from the bottom and 24. Return

This seems very positive to me, but I could be mistaken, what do you think?

I am new at this but really enjoying it....Would love to get your input!!!!!! Please Help!!!!!


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Hi Seeker,

I personally didn't interpret your earlier readings to mean that cutting ties would bring him back to you. I saw it rather as a new way of approaching your life.

I see 55 as a continuance of this process in that the light of the sun shines upon it allowing you to make a clear judgment about him, yourself and your new situation. Change lines in this hexagram refer not to the effects of light but as a way of overcoming darkness. This leads to a returning to your own Tao (#24), your own inner well being, independent of reliance upon him and a relationship that for now at least, has past.

If he will be drawn to you again in the future, it will be because you have found your own center, and I think that?s what your interpreters were suggesting in your earlier readings.

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willow

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Hi Seeker61,

In another topic right now (and here: http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/I_Ching_community/messages/92/407.html?1031998163#POST2964 ) Hilary has an interpretation of 54 you might do well to look at.

I may be misinterpreting your intent, but it seems from your post that your attitude is one of hoping to find some way to manipulate your ex- back into your world. I would very much caution against this. A successful intimate relationship depends on both partners showing up and being present to each other in equality, never on control. Having said that though, it is appropriate to be focused on your action, on what is the right action. Just remember the difference between "power-over" and "power-with". I think the reading is encouraging you to clarify and purify your intent, so that your action can lead to a long term positive outcome for all, instead of just a short-term positive outcome for you.
 

seeker61

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To Willow -

Yes I can see how my "intent" may not appear Pure as the way it was written (at 2am) in that I want to "induce" him come back by some percieved threat. This simply isn't the case. The walnut is truly to enable me to move on from this situation and start anew. If in fact my dependence on him for happiness is keeeping him away as Candice(above) has said (which is probably the case) then the natural order of things "may" take place, he would return. Of course I wish him and always have happiness with or without me. Thanks for your input however it was valuable and did give me something to think about.

Seeker
 

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Dear Seeker and all,

I was prompted by this to go and look up what Dr Bach wrote about the Walnut remedy. Listen to this (from 1935), and think about Hexagram 55...

'It is the remedy for a great change. The remedy for those who have decided to take a great step forward in life. The decision to step forward, to break old conventions, to leave old limits and restrictions, and to start on a new and better way, often brings with it physical suffering because of the slight regrets, the slight heart-breakings at severance from old ties, old associations, old thoughts.

This remedy... helps us to pass through all such states without regrets, without memories of the past, without fears for the future...'

Wow.
 

rainbaby

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Interesting that you approached the I Ching with this issue of yours. I had been planning to do the same this very day. I'll come back and share my results.
 

rainbaby

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I guess I should have clarified that my consultation is for an acquaintance of mine; not ME personally...so that could make a difference
 

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