Love hexagram 45.1.3> 49

[PrincessS]

I have a half flirtation that I have been attending for a few weeks I asked how things will evolve between us, it seemed to me a very auspicious hexagram but the lines speak a lot of confusion can you help me?

 

[pooja123]

line 1 says that relationship takes effort. Line 3 says the person is seeking to be with others. So my guess is that you should keep your options open as well. In my experience, hex 45 was never good in terms of forming a love relationship. It is more about exploring options.

 

[PrincessS]

I thought it was so auspicious. on various sites I read that 45 was very positive apart from line 3 also the final hexagram 49 gave me the idea of a positive response

 

[PrincessS]

49 talks about revolution, so I thought it would go to the next level in the report

 

[rosada]

45. Describes a group gathering and 49. describes a change so I am thinking you‘re
wanting to transform a pleasant superficial interaction with somebody in your group - like flirting with a classmate or someone at work - into something more personal. Line 45.1 could be saying you feel you recognize a friend here but 45.3 warns you maybe fantasizing there is something more possible. 49 could be saying your interest will eventually be recognized but it doesn’t promise it will be reciprocated. All together it seems the ic is simply giving you a snapshot of the moment. I think you should play it that it’s great to have someone in the group acknowledge you and make you feel welcome.
Let us know what happens!

 

[PrincessS]

45.! yes at the moment and a fairly superficial flirtation but neither of them has the courage to dare more and my question was if there was a potential to gradually become something else. the first one seemed to me like a: yes, if you take the initiative (even if I admit that I am very afraid to lose my balance) and the third I still continue to struggle to apply it to the context, it speaks of regrets. or it could be that it is a trivial flirt but from how I see and live it it doesn't seem to me ...

 

[rosada]

45.1 encourages you that reaching out to this person as a friend is perfectly acceptable and no reason to be shy or hesitant there, but 45.3 flat out says continuing to put energy into this association in hopes of romance will not result in a "harvest".
49. could be saying that by simply putting the time in, showing up, being friendly, being yourself, you may get a more genuine response from him, something more grounded, so I wouldn't read these lines as saying there's no point in continuing to talk, but maybe try to steer the conversation away from superficial flirtation - which leads nowhere- and focus on being your normal rational real self. THEN 49 promises that you will be “believed” which I assume means something good - like you become more comfortable being your honest true selves around each other.