love ir friendship?

[meganj]

what are - true intentions for -?
hexagram 13.2.5>14

the question in concern regards an ongoing friendship between two people who i suspect have secret feelings for each other but out of pride arent letting it be known.

i then proceeded to ask what do i need to know about this situation?
4.6>7
in a similiar old post WF says that the one being punished has caused this punishment by something they did. it was concluded that the person was chasing after "two rabbits"..

nobody wants to be second best to another.. its terrible.

 

[foxx777]

what are - true intentions for -?
hexagram 13.2.5>14

the question in concern regards an ongoing friendship between two people who i suspect have secret feelings for each other but out of pride arent letting it be known.

I would imagine that your perspective is correct, given the lines:

13.2 : a sort of clannish leaving others out. Hiding of love?
13.5 : People coming together after difficult times.
14: Also called in some translations, " Possession in great measure".

13. People Together

Line 2:

People together in the clan.
Inadequate.

Forming a clique, shutting people out. This is not an adequate way of dealing with people.

Line 5:

People together at first cry and wail,
but afterwards laugh.
Big armies overcome running into each other.

Between the people together there are difficulties at first, but this passes, and the atmosphere improves considerably.



Hexagram is changing to:

14. Noble Presence

Noble presence,
a foundation for progress.

Being there in a magnanimous way. This will help progress.

 

[meganj]

oh! i knew it! :c
we are broken up now so theres not much i can do.. even though i still love him.
geez *sigh*

 

[foxx777]

oh! i knew it! :c
we are broken up now so theres not much i can do.. even though i still love him.
geez *sigh*

Well, you wouldn't you say that line 5 indicates a coming back together in the future? At least the potential would appear to be there.

 

[meganj]

yahh maybe for them, i didnt ask about us though.
they have been seperated outwardly for a long time, distance, not talking etc.