love is in the air ....

[Mayorka]

I am not used to post about love interest...I am a workaholic but there is a man that attracts me so much...I made so many questions recently about how our relationship can evolve.. He is an architect and he is working for me.. I found out that he broke up recently but his ex is still around and tries to reconciliate...thanks to social networks....

Anyway

Does he like me?
Hexagram 30....
It seems that I have clarity and he likes me...?

Do I attract him?
34.1 - 32
I would dare to say yes...if the big toe can be a sexual implication...

How could I make a relationship with him?
50.1 - 14
He needs to get rid of the ex...

Any help much appreciated!

 

[diamant]

Does he like me? 30 uc / unchanging
He likes himself more.

Do I attract him? 34.1 > 32
34 is male virility. You attract him a bit. This will not change.

How could I make a relationship with him? 50.1 > 14
Be his mistress and get pregnant. And yes, the ex needs to go.

 

[Mayorka]

Does he like me? 30 uc / unchanging
He likes himself more.

Do I attract him? 34.1 > 32
34 is male virility. You attract him a bit. This will not change.

How could I make a relationship with him? 50.1 > 14
Be his mistress and get pregnant. And yes, the ex needs to go

To be honest I think the guy is unsuitable for me but still attracts me..Knowing that there is his ex around I don't want any kind of relationship with him..
One more question and I won't post anything else about him..

Is there any hope for relationship with him or is it impossible?
39.1 - 63

Obstruction in front and end...
I am not sure what it could mean...Perhaps I see the obstruction and I need to stop any desire for relationship..

 

[becalm]

Obstruction in front and end...
I am not sure what it could mean...Perhaps I see the obstruction and I need to stop any desire for relationship..

Sorry if this is crass but it made me laugh - Obstruction in front could mean he's leading with his um carrot.....

 

[Mayorka]

Obstruction in front could mean he's leading with his um carrot.....

I don't understand what you mean..

 

[diamant]

Is there any hope for relationship with him or is it impossible? 39.1 > 63
The line says don't proceed, back off. And then everything will be in their right position (63).

You can ask as many questions about him as you feel like.

Apart from his ex being around, which is clearly a major issue, you don't know how this person would behave during dating (you said you only know him professionally). So without knowing him, you don't have enough info to decide that you want a relationship with him. So ok, you fancy him physically, but relationship? Try to rethink this situation please. Take a step back, and organise (63) your thoughts, wants, and needs.

 

[Mayorka]

The third person is a major issue to me and this is the only thing that stops me...but anyway I am not the person who makes the first move. So yes your interpretation seems to be correct.

As I wrote I have made several questions about him but It doesn't seem to be a hope for a worthy relationship..for example:

Is there any hope for being together?
15,3,4 - 16
I feel from the answer that our relationship will remain profesional.

(Asking for clarification for the previous question...)
Do you mean that there is hope for relationship?
15,2,4-32
Nothing seems to show a relationship here.

 

[diamant]

Is there any hope for being together? 15.3.4 > 16
15.3 something comes to a conclusion.
15.4 being diligent at work.
16 having a party, having fun (or deception).
Not sure here. Maybe there's a chance for an affair with him if you socialise after work.

Do you mean that there is hope for relationship? 15.2.4 > 32
15.2 modest talk.
15.4 being diligent at work.
32 the situation will continue as it is now.
So a proper relationship with this guy doesn't sound possible.

 

[Mayorka]

Thank so much diamant. At least our profesional relationship will continue...