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I went on a date with a guy I met online, we hit it off and spoke about seeing each other again. He helped me out with something today but something felt a bit off. I asked him what's what and he said he's being a bit cautious for certain reasons, one of them being my unstable living situation. I get where he's coming from and later on sent him a text about what's what for me in my life.

Anyway I said I'd leave it up to him to initiate any further contact because I'm not going to waste my time trying to convince him of my validity.

What do I need to know about my Love life Hexagram 6.5>64

I guess it was quite a heated discussion (argument) and sending him my text giving my side of my story without emotion (line 5) will bring good fortune and we'll move past it but that's just a small step until we see where things do go from here.

I guess it could also mean, yes I got to tell my side of the story and I'm happy about that but I never hear from him again so things are left incomplete.


I just realised (a couple hours after I posted this) that this is the 2nd 'Argument' I've had in the past 10 days and ended having Line 5 of Hexagram 6 in both answers to my questions so I've looked further into Line 5.....

From Lise:
9 at 5: Contending. Fundamental auspiciousness.
The best way to establish your boundaries is by being an individual, independent. If you are true to yourself and correct to others, you are your own (and others) best advocate. You are the Gong.

(hex.6 its 64 Not Yet: Discerning possibilities is the basis of creativity.

I do feel comfortable with the way I've spoken up and what I've had to say in both situations as in the past I would have just walked away and said nothing. Although it looks like there's going to be no resolution that's beneficial to me re the rental. The landlords have had enough time to reconsider their lease agreement with me so I'm guessing they're just going to wait it out until I vacate the premises but I feel a lot better with establishing my boundaries and being true to myself. The same with this present situation - again he wasn't looking at it from my perspective and that wasn't fair to me which is why I felt the need to speak up.
 
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Both situations I wanted resolution which was fair to both me and them but neither parties have tried to make that happen....I guess that's a reflection of Hexagram 64.
 

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I went on a date with a guy I met online, we hit it off and spoke about seeing each other again. He helped me out with something today but something felt a bit off. I asked him what's what and he said he's being a bit cautious for certain reasons, one of them being my unstable living situation. I get where he's coming from and later on sent him a text about what's what for me in my life.

Anyway I said I'd leave it up to him to initiate any further contact because I'm not going to waste my time trying to convince him of my validity.

What do I need to know about my Love life Hexagram 6.5>64

I guess it was quite a heated discussion (argument) and sending him my text giving my side of my story without emotion (line 5) will bring good fortune and we'll move past it but that's just a small step until we see where things do go from here.

I guess it could also mean, yes I got to tell my side of the story and I'm happy about that but I never hear from him again so things are left incomplete.


I just realised (a couple hours after I posted this) that this is the 2nd 'Argument' I've had in the past 10 days and ended having Line 5 of Hexagram 6 in both answers to my questions so I've looked further into Line 5.....

From Lise:
9 at 5: Contending. Fundamental auspiciousness.
The best way to establish your boundaries is by being an individual, independent. If you are true to yourself and correct to others, you are your own (and others) best advocate. You are the Gong.

(hex.6 its 64 Not Yet: Discerning possibilities is the basis of creativity.

I do feel comfortable with the way I've spoken up and what I've had to say in both situations as in the past I would have just walked away and said nothing. Although it looks like there's going to be no resolution that's beneficial to me re the rental. The landlords have had enough time to reconsider their lease agreement with me so I'm guessing they're just going to wait it out until I vacate the premises but I feel a lot better with establishing my boundaries and being true to myself. The same with this present situation - again he wasn't looking at it from my perspective and that wasn't fair to me which is why I felt the need to speak up.
Hi! In my experience hex 6 reflects tension between different persons. It could be you're going through a phase of life which is totally different from the onr regarding the other person.

But still, the line clearly says you should tell what you think. That will bring fortune if you're right. Through the argument you can make order where disorder reigns. Hope it helps!
Clavdia
 
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Hi! In my experience hex 6 reflects tension between different persons. It could be you're going through a phase of life which is totally different from the onr regarding the other person.

But still, the line clearly says you should tell what you think. That will bring fortune if you're right. Through the argument you can make order where disorder reigns. Hope it helps!
Clavdia
Yes perfect Clavdia - it does help. We're kind of at the same stage of life but going about it differently I guess.
I'm glad I told him my thoughts, neither of us is in the wrong re the 'argument' it's just that I had to guess what was going on instead of him opening up about his concerns and I think he didn't like me wanting to know the truth as it put in a vulnerable position, well in his mind anyway.
 

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Interesting observation how 6.5 leads to 64. It seems to say that even when you have told your side of the story and you are totally in the right that doesn't necessarily mean reconciliation. Geeze negotiations are so tricky. Seems life on Earth has less to do with what is in our hearts and more about how well we've learned to manipulate words.
 
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Interesting observation how 6.5 leads to 64. It seems to say that even when you have told your side of the story and you are totally in the right that doesn't necessarily mean reconciliation. Geeze negotiations are so tricky. Seems life on Earth has less to do with what is in our hearts and more about how well we've learned to manipulate words.
Yes I think you could be right.....both parties involved in these situations are making it all about them and how they want the situation to be and not being mindful of the impact of what they WANT and how it may affect the other party (me in this instance).
As I said all they have to do is renegotiate the lease which in no way will take anything away from them it will just be fair for both of us.
The same with the date dude - all he had to do was speak up and LISTENED to what I had to say instead of just assuming, because of his past, I must be the same.

Honestly both situations are frustrating for me and having to use my energy to process and make sense of things as well as trying to find another place to live and all that goes with it......Sheesh!!
 
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I just received a message from date dude and he said he realised he's just not ready for a relationship, which I figured all along really. Good to get at least one 'completion' to my arguments!!
 

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This is not an astrology website but I just thought I'd put it out here that Saturn - the harsh reality planet - is at the last degrees of Capricorn until Christmas. This means whatever we're dealing with right now tends to end on a practical work first and no extra warm fuzzies note. Anyway glad to hear your friend had the decency to get back to you with a bit of completion!
 

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