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[rose]

Hi, came across a member's (Jesed) line of questions for a clearer view of a situation while I was looking through an old thread.. An old love has come back into my life, we are both happy to be in contact again, but there is some sense of apprehension cos I think we both dont know what to expect. Sometimes I feel we pretend to ignore the past. We are careful (well at least I am) not to bring up the past, cos im done with it. Some time has passed since our separation, it feels as if things are new again, but we know the past is there. There might be someone else in his picture, Im not sure. Really dont know what to think.

Asked:

General diagnosis of the relation between X and I
30.4.6 --> 36

Flash in the pan then? What does line 6 refer to?? 36 seems to be haeding towards injury..so we both are gonna get injured in this?

Qualification of X's position within the relation
59.2.3.5 --> 52

Qualification of my position within the relation
51.5 --> 17

Any insight would be appreciated, thanks.:bows:

rose

 

[ginnie]

General diagnosis of the relation between X and I
30.4.6 --> 36

Flash in the pan then? What does line 6 refer to?? 36 seems to be heading towards injury..so we both are gonna get injured in this?

The 36 might be referring to the fact you're both pretending you never knew each other before; burying the fact that you had a lot of unresolved troubles the first time around; playing dumb.

The 30.4 means a tendency towards rash action, either on your part or on his. 30.6 means the situation might be rectified. When chastising, only punish the people who are basically to blame, not average people, like "X." Nothing will be gained by either of you blaming the other one.

Qualification of X's position within the relation
59.2.3.5 --> 52

He's depressed or anxious, Rose. First, he's observing the situation. Secondly, he's trying to heal the wounds of the past. Thirdly, he's fumbling, because he doesn't know what to do anymore.

Qualification of my position within the relation
51.5 --> 17

Is there someone yelling here or throwing things or slamming a hand down on the table on occasion, making a ruckus from time to time? Is that you, Rose? Or is that him? You are simply adapting to whatever happens at this point.

The advice is: Keep your head and do whatever needs to be done. Be reassured that Nothing at all will be lost.

Rose, when people have no way of bringing things out into the open, of communicating what's on their minds, the situation will inevitably become explosive. This must be very frightening for you.

It's a good thing you consulted the I Ching, because you certainly need help with this relationship. You are going to have to tackle the problems, not sweep them under the rug. Because they are not going to go away on their own. Your future happiness, satisfaction, and security in life depend upon your doing something about this relationship. Don't leave it to tomorrow! If you need to speak with someone you know who can help you, please do so. Don't keep these sorts of troubles to yourself. It's not healthy to go on as if everything is wonderful, when everything is all wrong. That's what that H36 is all about. You are burying your own intelligence under the weight of the earth.

 

[willowfox]

General diagnosis of the relation between X and I
30.4.6 --> 36

Line 30.4 indicates the meeting again, the renewed feelings, but it indicates that the affair is a flash in the pan, its just like a fire, it burns bright for a while and dies.

Line 30.6 indicates that you need to be sensible and realistic about your "renewed" interest in this man.

Hex 36 indicates the need for you to take a back seat on this issue, as it says don't get swept up by your "feelings", don't get carried away.

Flash in the pan then? What does line 6 refer to?? 36 seems to be heading towards injury..so we both are gonna get injured in this?

Perhaps not him, but you, as line 30.6 says, rid yourself of your feelings, kill the root of this new attraction, be sensible. Go back and think why your relationship to this man didn't work the first time around, then you will see the future of this affair.

Qualification of X's position within the relation
59.2.3.5 --> 52

He has seen you, feelings between you have flared up, he thinks that you still very much like him, so he thinks that you want to get back together again as obviously he seems to be at a loose end these days. He wants in again, its all very nostalgic.

Qualification of my position within the relation
51.5 --> 17

You seem to be interested and I suppose, surprised that you still have some feelings deep down for this man but you are at present being cool and sensible which is saving you from losing your head.

 

[rose]

Thank you both Ginnie and Willowfox Btw good to see u again Willowfox