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marriage 43.2 to 49 and 60.1.2.4.to 45

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Hi,

I have been using the I Ching for a year now and it has always given me good advice. I come to this website a lot and read your interpretations, it has helped me to understand and to learn about the I ching. I am really glad that this online community exsists. Right now I have a big issue to resolve and I wanted to get some help from you.

I have been married for 5 years now. We had our ups and downs like each marriage.He has been unhappy lately. I think that its my fault because I didn't care about him as much as he wanted me to. About a year ago I had my doubts if this is what I want. He fought for us to stay together and since then I realised that I want to be him. A few weeks ago he told me that he is not happy in this relationship, he loves me, but he doesnt get from me enough love and caring. He needs to see changes in my behaviour, he doenst want to lose me. This happened the same night I was asking about his position in this relationship. ( I think I had a feeling that something is not right in our relationship)
I got 43.2 to 49. How true!! 49 means that there is a necessary change, get rid of the old , which is me. He doesnt act like he wants to end this but I am still afraid that this is how its gonna turn out.

I asked about my postition in this relationship:
60.1.2.4.to 45
This is not really clear to me. 60.1 means make no move, 60.2 means do not hesitate when the time is right, you will miss your chance. Time to act now!Is this about leaving the relationship?

So I asked today, How is our relationship right now and what can I /we do about it?
I got 2 with no changing lines.
It means be receptive and let things develop without to intervene.

I would appreciate your thoughts and interpretations. Thank you!
 

manci

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Please anybody want to add something? I really need your insight!
 

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I asked about my position in this relationship:
60.1.2.4.to 45"

Your position in this relationship is more like a silent partner who does not want to see that there are problems, so this causes you to hesitate far too long before thinking about doing something, so you fret and worry instead. It seems that you are demanding too much of him, you need to let him be free of all restrictions.
You need to work in harmony with him which you don't seem to be doing at the moment, you need to give him your support, when you see problems sort them out immediately, let him know that he can depend upon you. So remain calm and always do the best that you can.


"So I asked today, How is our relationship right now and what can I /we do about it?
I got 2 with no changing lines. "

Well you already know how your relationship stands but you can be more responsive in your attitude, be prepared to listen and learn, don't begin anything without consulting him, be willing to help and be willing to discuss the issue, find out how to help your partner, success is indicated but it requires diligence.
 

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Thank you Willowfox, you interpretation is very true!
 

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