Maybe Sticky Situation 61.0 and 33.2 to 44

[herrmyte]

So Ive been in contact with a former student (I was a grad student instructor) intermittently via email over the last year and a half. We met once, I left the country for the summer and upon returning she resumed contact after I thought it was over. But shes in a relationship. So I finally just ask her to meet me out after returning from 2 months meditation training and she tells me shed love to meet me but shes in couples counseling right now and she understands if Im put off. Id like to just meet her again in person at least once just to see things closer and leave it or go from there. There is a plan to meet up in a couple of days. So I asked the I Ching:

What does X feel about me? 61 Unchanging
Can X be trusted? 33.2 to 44

What is your impression of this reading? Thanks for your help

 

[ginnie]

The Yi is saying that it cannot be said whether or not she can be trusted, because, basically, she will avoid getting too involved with you right now. She's in couples counseling, presumably to try to save her marriage or other important relationship.

Hex 61 with no changing lines says that she feels open-minded towards you. She was able to put herself into your position and see that you'd be angry or disappointed to learn how involved she is with another man.

 

[herrmyte]

If she avoids getting too involved thats good. My concern is that she contacted me while she was involved and told me she was @4 months ago. Not so great if I become involved with her. I made it fairly clear I was still interested in her and we kept corresponding. Am I unique? Is she looking all over the place while her present relationship is uncertain? How strong or real is her attraction to me or just convenient?

 

[willowfox]

What does X feel about me? 61 Unchanging I feel that she thinks that she can manipulate you.

Can X be trusted? 33.2 to 44 No, I don't think that she can be trusted.

 

[sophie]

She feels you are a trustworthy person.

For 33.2 >> 44 - the Yi is advising you to stay away from her at the moment, as if you don't, she is likely to overwhelm you.