Me - spinster

[cutiecat]

Hey all! Thanks for stopping by to check this out. Yes, I'm a spinster
I cannot go to the past (loves), have nothing in the present and the future seems bleak. this is just to give a background The question about my romantic future and new loves produced 15.2.6. to 18. I truly hope that it does not advise me to go back to the people who did not make me happy. Then it's seems to talk about the present - basically, yeah it sucks - deal with it. Be modest...I wonder what is the meaning of this modesty?
-CC

 

[em ching]

Hi cutie cat

I think this answer suggests being modest with your expectations - your frame of mind re. love sounds quite negative at the moment, so I think you need to work on what is spoiled there, before you can believe it's possible again, and thus be happy and relaxed and attractive... which takes time. You also need perhaps to remember others' needs and impressions of you - 15 talks of equal exchange, sincerity and meeting others halfway.

15.2 talks of speaking with a fullness of heart which you aren't perhaps able to do at the moment because you've lost faith in people a bit? So I think you need to give it time and when you have positive experiences in general with others again, your heart will open up and thus be more accessible.

15.6> Talks of feeling self-pity and blaming other people for your present attitude to love, when your feelings are your responsibility. Try to hold to them independently rather than relying on others to influence your expectations of good or bad in life. If you want to feel love then feel it and others will follow suit? You must also have courage to stand up for yourself in what you want from other people - don't let anyone walk over you or not give as much as you in a relationship. Express your needs rather than let resentment fester...

18 suggests the above are the issues that need to be worked on before you can make a fresh start without past events influencing present expectations.

Hope that helps

:bows:

 

[willowfox]

Hey all! Thanks for stopping by to check this out. Yes, I'm a spinster
I cannot go to the past (loves), have nothing in the present and the future seems bleak. this is just to give a background The question about my romantic future and new loves produced 15.2.6. to 18. I truly hope that it does not advise me to go back to the people who did not make me happy. Then it's seems to talk about the present - basically, yeah it sucks - deal with it. Be modest...I wonder what is the meaning of this modesty?
-CC

This is saying that you need to correct your own attitude before you can get into a fixed relationship. You are the perpetrator of your own demise, so just try to be just another person.

 

[cutiecat]

Em and Wf thanks a lot for your deep analysis. So basically my attitude is the problem. I just think Universe keeps sending wrong people my way. Not sure why is that