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aeryn

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Hello everyone. :)
I come here from time to time, and this forum hepled me a lot in my interpretations.
I finally decided to join the forum, because I have a question and I am really confused.

It goes like this:

I met someone recently. He is kind of emotionally unavailable, but he wants to spend time with me. We are on the same frequency, the sex is great, and so on. He told me he is worried because he really doesn`t want to hurt me and get my expectations up, because at the moment he is just not material for relationships.
There is also, maybe, another woman involved. He told me right away he met her two days after he met me. Well, the whole thing with "us" is quite fresh so I wasn`t really upset with him much because I`ve just met him then.
We havent talked for two weeks after that. I kind of retreated to sort things out in my head.

We talked and again he says he likes me and wants to spent time with me, but again I feel it will be just a sort of friends who have sex thing.

The thing is, I dont know what to do. Just go with the flow and enjoy our time together? I mean, right now, I am really not in love with him so I think I just might spend time with him.
But...I was alone for a loooong time. And I usually really tend to bond with the other person. So there`s the problem. I`m scared I could get hurt.


So...to end the soap opera, :D the I ching said:

51.5 - 17 - what will happen if we pursue the relationship

29.1.3. - 5 - how will he behave towards me if we start seeing each other


Well. thank you for any answer. I know I am the only one who can decide what is good for me. But I would very much appreciate any interpretation of yours.

:)
 
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sooo

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:) a little tongue in cheek

51.5

Paradise by the Dashboard

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZK-FRac7m58

Boy:
I remember every little thing
As if it happened only yesterday
Parking by the lake
And there was not another car in sight
And I never had a girl
Looking any better than you did
And all the kids at school
They were wishing they were me that night

And now our bodies are oh so close and tight
It never felt so good, it never felt so right
And we're glowing like the metal on the edge of a knife
C'mon! Hold on tight!
C'mon! Hold on tight!

Though it's cold and lonely in the deep dark night
I can see paradise by the dashboard light

Girl:
Ain't no doubt about it
We were doubly blessed
Cause we were barely seventeen
And we were barely dressed

Ain't no doubt about it
Baby got to go and shout it
Ain't no doubt about it
We were doubly blessed

Boy:
Cause we were barely seventeen
And we were barely dressed

Baby doncha hear my heart
You got it drowning out the radio
I've been waiting so long
For you to come along and have some fun

And I gotta let ya know
No you're never gonna regret it
So open up your eyes I got a big surprise
It'll feel all right
Well I wanna make your motor run

And now our bodies are oh so close and tight
It never felt so good, it never felt so right
And we're glowing like the metal on the edge of a knife
C'mon! Hold on tight!
C'mon! Hold on tight!

Though it's cold and lonley in the deep dark night
I can see paradise by the dashboard light
Paradise by the dashboard light

You got to do what you can
And let Mother Nature do the rest
Ain't no doubt about it
We were doubly blessed
Cause we were barely seventeen
And we were barely--

We're gonna go all the way tonight
We're gonna go allt he way
An tonight's the night...

Radio Broadcast:
Ok, here we go, we got a real pressure cooker
going here, two down, nobody on, no score,
bottom of the ninth, there's the wind-up and
there it is, a line shot up the middle, look
at him go. This boy can really fly!
He's rounding first and really turning it on
now, he's not letting up at all, he's gonna
try for second; the ball is bobbled out in center,
and here comes the throw, and what a throw!
He's gonna slide in head first, here he comes, he's out!
No, wait, safe--safe at second base, this kid really
makes things happen out there.
Batter steps up to the plate, here's the pitch--
he's going, and what a jump he's got, he's trying
for third, here's the throw, it's in the dirt--
safe at third! Holy cow, stolen base!
He's taking a pretty big lead out there, almost
daring him to try and pick him off. The pitcher
glance over, winds up, and it's bunted, bunted
down the third base line, the suicide squeeze in on!
Here he comes, squeeze play, it's gonna be close,
here's the throw, there's the play at the plate,
holy cow, I think he's gonna make it!

II. Let Me Sleep On It (hex 17)

Girl:
Stop right there!
I gotta know right now!
Before we go any further--!

Do you love me?
Will you love me forever?
Do you need me?
Will you never leave me?
Will you make me so happy for the rest of my life?
Will you take me away and will you make me your wife?
Do you love me!?
Will you love me forever!?
Do you need me!?
Will you never leave me!?
Will you make me so happy for the rest of my life!?
Will you take me away and will you make me your wife!?
I gotta know right now
Before we go any further
Do you love me!!!?
Will you love me forever!!!?

Boy:
Let me sleep on it
Baby, baby let me sleep on it
Let me sleep on it
And I'll give you my answer in the morning

Let me sleep on it
Baby, baby let me sleep on it
Let me sleep on it
And I'll give you my answer in the morning

Let me sleep on it
Baby, baby let me sleep on it
Let me sleep on it
And I'll give you my answer in the morning

Girl:
I gotta know right now!
Do you love me?
Will you love me forever?
Do you need me?
Will you never leave me?
Will you make me so happy for the rest of my life?
Will you take me away and will you make me your wife?
I gotta know right now!
Before we go any further
Do you love me?
And will you love me forever?

Boy:
Let me sleep on it
Baby, baby let me sleep on it
Let me sleep on it
And I'll give you my answer in the morning
Let me sleep on it!!!

Girl:
Will you love me forever?

Boy:
Let me sleep on it!!!

Girl:
Will you love me forever!!!

III. Praying for the End of Time

Boy:
I couldn't take it any longer
Lord I was crazed
And when the feeling came upon me
Like a tidal wave
I started swearing to my god and on my mother's grave
That I would love you to the end of time
I swore that I would love you to the end of time!

So now I'm praying for the end of time
To hurry up and arrive
Cause if I gotta spend another minute with you
I don't think that I can really survive
I'll never break my promise or forget my vow
But God only knows what I can do right now
I'm praying for the end of time
It's all that I can do
Praying for the end of time, so I can end my time with you!!!

Boy:
It was long ago and it was far away
and it was so much better than it is today

Girl:
It never felt so good
It never felt so right
And we were glowing like
A metal on the edge of a knife
 

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Chances are that you will bond with him, so you have to ask yourself upfront if you having casual sex with a friend is what you want. The thrill of a casual sex relationship may be fulfilling for him, but will it be for you? maybe the 51.5 refers to the offer which is "shocking/exciting" but solidifies your truer intention in the long run.
I would not go into it if you are hoping that his stance might change. 29 sounds dangerous, but even so, once a guy is upfront about his intentions, best to take him at his word, and make your decision based on the that, with no illusions.
good luck!
 

aeryn

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Well...I just wanted to let you know how it all turned out. Well, it ended. And it was exactly like you said. He was a very dark person with a lot of issues. And I got attached. It took me some time to realise that he actually doesn`t care at all. He just wasn`t capable of having any emotion. Well. That`s that. He just uses women for sex.
The funny thing is, now, without him, I feel somewhat lighter. Like a stone fell of my chest.

Well, thank you again. :)
 

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