Missed Events: 37 uc, 21 uc, 30.3 to 24, 9.2.3 to 42, and 21.3.5.6 to 49

[Fanofenka]

This post will be a long one. There are things that I gave up and I don't blame myself. Sometimes we regret on giving up an opportunity due to our hubris. I have posted some things regarding things I give up and this post is a revisit where I ask Yi about the opposite.

What would've happened if I have gone to the summer job in 2014? 37 uc People in the Home (The Family, The Clan).
Hex: People in the home. A woman's constancy is fruitful.
Is it saying that I would have belonged to a community, where I get help?

What would've happened if I went on the 7th grade camping trip? 21 uc Biting Through.
Hex: Biting through, creating success. Fruitful to use legal proceedings.
Is it saying that I would've experienced hardship?

What would've happened if I got accepted to a specialized high school? 30.3 Brightness Hidden (The Clinging, Fire) to 24 Returning (The Turning Point).
Hex 30: Brightness hidden. Constancy in hardship bears fruit.
Line 3: Brightness hidden, hunting in the south. Gets their great leader. Afflicted constancy is not possible.
Hex 24: Returning, creating success. Going out, coming in, without anxiety. Partners come, not a mistake. Turning around and returning on your path. The seventh day comes, you return. Fruitful to have a direction to go.
Is it saying that I wouldn't be able to stay afloat (line 3), so I would've gone to a regular high school (line 24)?

What would've happened if I have gone to the high school senior trip? 9.2.3 Small Taming to 42 Increasing.
Hex 9: Small taming, creating success. Dense clouds without rain Come from my Western altars.
Line 2: Drawn back, returning. Good fortune.
Line 3: A cart losing its wheel spokes. Husband and wife avert their eyes.
Hex 42: Increasing, fruitful to have a direction to go. Fruitful to cross the great river.
Is it saying that I would've stayed indoors as it was a ski resort (line 2) and that I would've been an introvert (line 3), which would make me feel good (line 42)?

What would've happened if I have gone to the high school senior prom? 21.3.5.6 Biting Through to 49 Radical Change (Revolution, Molting).
Hex 21: Biting through, creating success. Fruitful to use legal proceedings.
Line 3: Biting into dried meat, coming on poison. Small shame, not a mistake.
Line 5: Biting through dried meat, gaining golden metal. Constancy means danger – not a mistake.
Line 6: Shouldering a cangue so your ears disappear – pitfall.
Hex 49: Radical change. On your own day, there is truth and confidence. From the source, creating success, constancy bears fruit. Regrets vanish.
Is it saying that it would've been boring (line 3), it would've made me feel disinterested (line 5), and it would've made me feel different (line 6), where it would've made me change my outlook (line 49)?

 

[solivini]

Every question here is a "what if?" That is not what happened. Reality is what did happen. In each of these readings I can see an element of it wasn't meant to be.

What would have happened if I would have gone to a job in 2014?
37 Unchanging
Nothing would have changed your inner "family" circle. Things would be the same as they are now.

What would have happened if I would have went on the 7th grade camping trip?
21 Unchanging
Some obstacle would need to be bitten through (which is pointless now, as you did not go and there was no obstacle to apply punishment to).

What would have happened if I had gotten into specialized high school?
30.3>24
You would have probably wasted your time and ended up returning to your true path, anyway.

Ski trip:
9.2.3>24
You would have wanted to go home the whole time cause it wasn't a big deal to you.

High school prom:
21.3.5.6>49
You would see that this is not good for you (21.3), which would lead you with means to catch better substinance (21.5), and you would have been blocked off from hearing anything useful (21.6) which leads you to decide that this was much different than what you want.

Look, in each of these you made the right decision. It doesn't matter what would have happened or not. What happened, happened. It shaped you into who you are today. Don't live in the past and worry about what mistakes you have made or what you should have done. You did the right thing in each instance because the universe is course correcting and will make sure we go on the path we are to take if we allow ourselves to be guided. Thoughts about what could have been are useless. What was no longer exists.

 

[Wild Goose]

I want to second Solivini, I got a sense of 'lucky saves' while going through your readings, I can't say much for the others however 21 and 30 I get quite a bit usually in a series of readings that illustrate incompatible circumstances due to hubris and poor decisions. This reads more like a list of reassurances and reaffirmations, yes, you are correct, no blame necessary.