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windblownman

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Several months ago my father died ( my mom passed away twenty some years ago), about a month after this my partner and I had a huge row which resulted in us separating. I have nowhere to go or call home, but I am staying with my daughter and her partner for just a few more days. I then have the option ( my only apparent one) to visit a friend and her husband, ex colleagues that have said there may be a job available, quite a stressful one at times, ( I gave up work about 18 moths ago to take care of my partner who became mentally unwell) or to stay at my dads old and empty house whilst I wait for the probate and release of my inheritance to me which would enable me to buy a (very small) place I could call home. Apart from all the hurt and loss I really am not sure what to do or where to go, I would appreciate any reflections or insights .

I asked yi please to comment on my seriously considering going to the work situation and received 46 uc I read this as if I proceeded with this it would take incremental hard work and I would have to commit to the long haul,which I am not sure whether this would be good for me or whether I am capable of this ( not sure if my heart truly in it)

I asked about returning to my dads old house and received 31.5.5 to 15 possibly making myself vulnerable and visited by old ghosts ( which I don’t like the sound of particularly at this moment)

Any help would be appreciated
 

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I asked yi please to comment on my seriously considering going to the work situation and received 46 uc I read this as if I proceeded with this it would take incremental hard work and I would have to commit to the long haul,which I am not sure whether this would be good for me or whether I am capable of this ( not sure if my heart truly in it)

I asked about returning to my dads old house and received 31.5.5 to 15 possibly making myself vulnerable and visited by old ghosts ( which I don’t like the sound of particularly at this moment)

31.5 changes to 62 not 15. You wrote 31..5.5>15 you can't have 2 line 5s so what did you mean ? Did you mean 31.4.5>15

In any case going to your dad's house seems far better than you imagine by the looks of line. I think you would be okay there and I think it would possibly be a far better position to go from as it were than staying with friend and husband.

I may be wrong of course but I feel very much by 31.5 there ain't going to be any old ghosts there unless you want them there and if you had line 4 that message is even clearer. You decide what's in your dad's house. Also the 15 makes this look a far more practical option anyway.

Have you stayed in your dad's house for a few nights or so on your own yet ? Maybe you should try it if not ?

I get the feel you're more in control than you think and of course your dad's house belongs to you
in a very real sense now, it is truly yours so there's less to worry about than you think perhaps.
 

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