Moving again... 51.3.6>30

[goddessliss]

Well I have asked several times about moving in the last 6 months or so I am hoping I am finally gonna sort this one out.
My son and his wife are just about to have a baby and have asked me if I would move closer to them, though not with them. I have agreed to move at the most 2 hours drive away.
This would mean a huge change for me but as this is what I have been looking for myself it is of no real sacrifice.

How will it benefit me to move closer to my son and his wife

Hex 51.3.6>30

Does this mean something may happen before I move to clarify things.

Having said I am fine about moving it will mean I will be leaving a number of beautiful friends behind

How will it benefit me to stay living in the area I am now in

Hexagram 24

Well I guess it means It will stay the same, same....that means little to no unemployment and little to no love life - 2 of the main reasons I am keen to leave this area. The unemployment and high priced rentals have left people leaving here in the masses. It is an amazing place to live as in a very laidback lifestyle near the beach and friendly people but I am so over living on the 'bread line'.

thks for your help
Liss

 

[foxx777]

Well I have asked several times about moving in the last 6 months or so I am hoping I am finally gonna sort this one out.
My son and his wife are just about to have a baby and have asked me if I would move closer to them, though not with them. I have agreed to move at the most 2 hours drive away.
This would mean a huge change for me but as this is what I have been looking for myself it is of no real sacrifice.

How will it benefit me to move closer to my son and his wife

Hex 51.3.6>50

Does this mean something may happen before I move to clarify things.

Having said I am fine about moving it will mean I will be leaving a number of beautiful friends behind

How will it benefit me to stay living in the area I am now in

Hexagram 24

Well I guess it means It will stay the same, same....that means little to no unemployment and little to no love life - 2 of the main reasons I am keen to leave this area. The unemployment and high priced rentals have left people leaving here in the masses. It is an amazing place to live as in a very laidback lifestyle near the beach and friendly people but I am so over living on the 'bread line'.

thks for your help
Liss

I think 51.3.6 shows that you need to take some action, which moving would be. But that (line 6) you need to find the middle way, and it may take some doing. ( I am thinking of Legge's translation, "He has not yet found the course of the due mean." ) H50 I would see as auspicious for new beginnings. In terms of the general economic situation, I suppose we all must struggle through that part as best we can. H24 I assume was unchanging? Yes, it would mean a "return" to what you already are in - perhaps that too could have its good aspects?

 

[goddessliss]

I think 51.3.6 shows that you need to take some action, which moving would be. But that (line 6) you need to find the middle way, and it may take some doing. ( I am thinking of Legge's translation, "He has not yet found the course of the due mean." ) H50 I would see as auspicious for new beginnings. In terms of the general economic situation, I suppose we all must struggle through that part as best we can. H24 I assume was unchanging? Yes, it would mean a "return" to what you already are in - perhaps that too could have its good aspects?

Thankyou foxx777 - I am wondering about line 6 - there has already been some events that have 'shaken me' up of late and I am wondering if this might be saying I would find some peace by leaving this place where I live now, not just the house but the area.
That is actually how I feel - I just want to walk away as if shedding the past.
Hex 50 shld have read Hex 30 which I have changed but Clarity sounds just as good - this is what I need too some clarity about my life.

Returning - there are good aspects like you say but I have already moved away and come back because of the good aspects but I find myself still restless and discontent.

I have asked further - how will it benefit me to focus my search for work in the N area

Hexagram 17.1>45 - sounds like this is the right thing to do
have a lovely day - Liss