Moving Dilemma Hex 4.2.6>2

[goddessliss]

Hi to you on a sunny afternoon,

I haven't felt settled where I live for a long while and have had a few dramas. I thought I'd finally found a place that I felt was more suitable and was due to move there in 10 days but suddenly it's not feeling right.

How will it benefit me to go through with my planned move

Hex 4.2.6>2

How will it benefit me to staying living where I am

Hex 4.2>23

I've no idea what this means

thanks for your help - Liss

 

[meng]

Hi Liss,

I feel your confusion since I too have been looking for new digs. I finally found a place that I think will work out well, and like yourself, I woke the following morning with a strong sense of remorse and questioning whether my decision was a good one or not. It's a unique kind of situation and I've asked the Yi a number of questions to help fill in the blanks for me, and like yourself have received more than one h4, and h2. Some answers seemed it spoke more to my mental/emotional state, and some seemed simply practical.

In the case of 4 in this kind of situation, it's subjectively up you to discover whether you like this new place. Not only does Yi send the question back to me, especially in line 2, but I believe it's the Yi's view that our life is to be lived, rather than neatly predicted. This could make a case against the idea of a fixed destiny, because we don't know, and the only way to find out is to move ahead with it. If something is definitely not conducive to your well being at a certain place, or if there's not a 'calling' to go there, such as some manner of nourishing and increasing others without decreasing yourself, the Yi has pointed them out under no uncertain terms. But with 4, it's anybody's guess whether it will satisfy your needs, and whether it realistically works with your budget. But 4.2 is capable of taking charge of the household, though only by starting out in the dark and feeling your way along.

This leads me to perceive that Yi will not typically give answers that would prevent me from living my own life, finding my own way. This an image of 4.2, to me.

Maybe you can relate.

 

[goddessliss]

Thanks Meng.
Both places are positive and negative in their own different way, my question stems from the last 2 years I've gone from being homeless, to a domestic violence house share, to a substance abuse(not me) house share to people with no boundaries and a whole lot of disrespect house share to...what next. Lessons, perhaps within each given situation but my health and well being have suffered enough already.
I so hope you find something positive for you...we all deserve to. - Liss

 

[meng]

Thanks. I've committed, and legal recourse won't be very helpful in this case, so I'm trusting the good heart of the Prince of Heaven.

In your case, your past experiences must not be repeated if you don't wish the same results. It's why I included "without decreasing yourself" in my comments. It must be equally equitable.

 

[goddessliss]

Always good to go with trust Meng, not always easy to do though. Please let me know if it all works out ok, always good to receive support from others who understand your dilemma,
Oh yes very important point about not decreasing self.

 

[meng]

Will do, Liss, thanks. Great wishes upon your future as well. :bows: