Multiple Readings About Flirting Relationship

[Infini_T]

Hi,

I'm relatively new to the I Ching and need some help reading or confirming the readings of the hexagrams below.

First, let me give you some information about me and the context of the questions. I'm a 31 years old woman. I started working with this man at work since November 2014. We got along right away and became good friends. We often text each other outside of work just to chat or joke about random things. Recently, we started flirting and it became clear that we are both very attracted to each other, especially physically. But here's the catch: he's engaged and I'm married. I know. Please don't judge. :S The flirting is always going further and further and I know that this is wrong, but none of us are actually stopping it for some reason.

So, here are the questions that I asked:

1. What are his feelings for me? 10.2.4 > 42
2. Is he thinking about me this weekend? 54.1 > 40
3. Is he going to text me today? 63.1.4.5 > 62
4. Is he going to text me tomorrow? 58.1.2.5 > 16

1. It seems to be indicating some caution?
2. It seems to be talking about being in the background. Is that a yes?
3. I take it as a no. Again, he's being cautious?
4. I take it as a yes, but I'm thinking I may be wrong?

I'm just curious how other people interpret these readings, from an external point of view. Without judging the situation. :S

Thanks in advance for helping. :S
Infini-T

 

[Alwayschanging]

Good morning, I'm fairly new to interpretations, so you can take my advice with a grain of salt. Nevertheless:

1. What are his feelings for me? 10.2.4 > 42
2. Is he thinking about me this weekend? 54.1 > 40
3. Is he going to text me today? 63.1.4.5 > 62
4. Is he going to text me tomorrow? 58.1.2.5 > 16


1. He is trying to withdraw himself from any wrongdoing. He knows he has you in his hands, but knows better than to act on it because his life is on the up and up. Yes, I would say he feels he needs to be cautious around you.
2. Nope. This is literally the hexagram about being in an inferior position, in particular this line is about "marrying as a concubine". The most you will be thought of is as a second fiddle, whether that's romantic or platonic I'm unsure. I'd say give up the chase and continue as a friend, but that's just me.
3. Perhaps- But even if he does, you're looking to his past actions too much, reading too much into his flirting. Walk the middle path and take on a more selfless attitude. Maybe there is a real connection here but it takes a different form, your role is much smaller than you think it is.
4. No, he is not. He is contented with his own life. Seek happiness within yourself and give up this dependence on a guy whose priorities are elsewhere. The romantic relation is a disintegrating, it's not as sincere as you'd be led to think it is. Joy comes from within, pursue your own path with gusto.