Must I be worried or concerned regarding our relationship?

[spica]

16.6-->35

16 means approval, does it mean a yes or no?
35 means progress
16.6 means don't ask?

Does the hexagram indicate I need to be concerned, or just abandon that thought for a bit?

Thank you all.

 

[Trojina]

16.6 is just saying stop going on about it - even inwardly, it won't get you anywhere - yes abandon the thought

 

[spica]

But I can't abandon it without an answer...
Argh! ...

 

[spica]

Ya you're right though

 

[willowfox]

Must I be worried or concerned regarding our relationship?
16.6-->35


It says to stop deluding yourself with false enthusiasm if you can wake up and see the trees then you can make some real progress.

 

[spica]

Ok thanks willowfox.
But I'm not very sure what the trees are in this case. Are they positive or negative relationship wise?

I know i should not think about this anymore but I read from justa's post regarding the role she played, so I asked : What role do I play for him?

I got 20.1.2. -->>61

What do you think regardin g this?
I'm not sure the changing lines are an advise for me or advice for him..

Thanks for any help.

 

[my_key]

Must I be worried or concerned regarding our relationship?
16.6-->35

Are you really really listening to what the IC is saying?
You are sweating the small stuff regarding this relationship because this is what you are bogged down with at the moment. You are the only one that is really impacted by these worries and concerns and it isn't taking you to where you need to be(16.6). Open up your mind and change your attitude and then you will start to see things differently (35)

What role do I play for him?

I got 20.1.2. -->>61

I'm not sure that this is answering your question- it seems to me to be more of a comment on the situation you are in at the moment.

You are in a position where you are not at fault. You can only see what you can see - you really are stuck in the trees and cannot see the wider picture here. (20.1) Don't beat yourself up. Keep on doing what you are doing until you get a spark of insight then things will start to open up for you (20.2) Look inside yourself and you will begin to realise what is really really happening and why you are having all the pain and turmoil at the moment.(61)

Love and Hugs

Mike

 

[spica]

Mike, you have been very helpful in explaining! Thank you! I get lost in symbolisms and literally can't see the forest for the trees there! lol
Yeah I see the i ching is very helpful, and is always to the point in his answers to me. Sometimes I just get so caught up in the situation I don't know what he is replying.
Yes that's what I should be doing, looking within myself for the answers, but I just can't seem to quiet my mind - all those thoughts popping out . I will try now.
I see the i ching reiterating what he's trying to tell me, but I guess I refuse to accept what he says, because I don't truly understand how to do what he says.. thank you for clearing up the message for me

Thank you to willowfox and trojan too who tried to explain to me without much info given on my part.