my I-Ching Reading..anyone to clarify?

[amy luisa]

I just asked the I-Ching a question. Will this friendship lead to a romance again? this is what i got.

LEFT SIDE -
30. Li/The Changing Fire

__________________
_____ _______ above Li
__________
__________
_____ ____
_____________ below Li

RIGHT SIDE -
14. Ta Vu/Possession in Great Measure

_________
____ ____ above Li
_________
_________
_________ below Chien

so i read the translation and wanted to know if you can help me understand? Thank you so much as we are really such good soul mates together.

thank you again.

don"t know if you need my birth data or not.

 

[fkegan]

Hi Amy,

I take it your Oracle was hex. 30. 2 >> 14?

It is a lovely Oracle dealing with the importance of yielding in general and clinging to what it is that gives you (and your relationship) ongoing fire. Tending a campfire is one of the most important skills of the natural world. You may not dump too much stuff on the fire; you may not deprive your campfire of free space to allow air to bring new oxygen to the ongoing process. You may not deprive the campfire of its ongoing supply of new logs in proper order and quantity.

Line Two has the commentary: Yellow light [Roy G. Biv, yellow is in the middle of the visible spectrum] Supreme Good Fortune.

As this line, an open Yin space draws in what is going on about it and fills in to become focus instead of just background the hex 30 moves toward becoming...

Hex 14 The situation of the wheel where one open and controlling hub keeps all thirty spokes aligned and working well to form the complete wagon that can transport all manner of good stuff.
Cf: http://www.daily-tao.com/tao/eleven.html

There is several mentions of being gentle and allowing proper space while being treated as a Queen. What better Oracle could you imagine?

Give thanks and be Kind...

Frank

 

[willowfox]

I just asked the I-Ching a question. Will this friendship lead to a romance again? this is what i got. 30.2 > 14

This is good as you will gain a treasure. So, hang in there as romance is in the air.

 

[amy luisa]

I totally don't understand this at all. All i did was ask that question and concentrated. My friend and I met for the first time in over 33 years in brooklyn, NY in January as we were both going there for reunions of our own families. it was a wonderful visit and we got a chance to go out again and date and go to the beach to see the full moon. it was a magikal time. but, things are cooled off a bit and i think that we are stopping to start again...anew and fresh. i don't know if i concentrated enough (LOL) but i guess it will work out again for us. i think we rushed it too fast as we were so nervous. but is that what the reading means? that we will Start again? because the way it looks like now, we are only starting to learn about each other. he lives in CA and I live in AZ.
In other words, is this accurate? will this love bloom again in 2010! were we ment to be together? will we eventually, with all the challenges ahead, be together? thank you dear friends for clarifying this for me?

 

[layla_b]

Don't worry about "meant to be" or not. This hexagram is very positive so just enjoy the moment and the things that are on their way to you! It seems like the situation is rich with possibility so no need to over analyze it. Normally we do that out of fear as if knowing some ultimate destiny is going to change things. But we can't (and shouldn't) know everything that the future will bring. Afterall, the future doesn't even exist yet..it never exist. All there is is the NOW.

So enjoy the romance in the air and being "treated like a queen" in 2010

 

[amy luisa]

Ahhh ok????

ok, well, ahhh, i don't know about being treated like "a Queen" we are very much like Dr. Zhivao and Lara/Katherine Hepburn and Spencer Tracy/Laurel & Hardy.

But you remember what happened to Spencer and Tracy? She was so devoted to him and stayed with him and was never able to marry him because of his marriage.

I am still very much hidden.

ewehhhhh
wish i can get this heart of mines to come back together.
everyone says to me
patience, challenges, soul mates, exercise restraint?

don't know...don't know....
i guess i should relax and just go out with other guys when they are at least IN THE NEIGHBORHOOD!!

Ahhhhh what happened to Lara now in Dr. Zchivago?????

 

[amy luisa]

My Hexagrams - saved only one side

When i had the reading up yesterday, i went and saved it to my computer. only the left side was captured. I don't remember the right side though, i only remember copying the lines as it first came up and i did read it when i had it translated. it sounded good.

but my question also is....does it show what is happening in the relationship now? meaning, what is going on to have this separation?

just curious so i can understand this.

also, when i concentrated on me and my friend...i did concentrate on him. but there is a new guy that is trying to "come in" and he seems so definate about meeting me in CA in May when i go and he wants to please me and take me out. but i am hesitant because i am not in love with him and don't want to lead him on. could the "being treated like a queen" be from this guy instead? just wanted to know about who this reading was about.

thanks - very curious about how this works. Should i have put down his name when asking? or his birthday?
But wow..forever greatful!

 

[amy luisa]

I take it your Oracle was hex. 30. 2 >> 14?

what is this? did i write it down wrong? I don't know what this means? i wrote down what i saw on the left side, and the right

could it be different?

 

[amy luisa]

My post

did i post this incorrectly? please, because this relationship on the phone last night was not too good.

please let me know.
thank you

 

[arabella]

Not sure what your confusion is about? Your first post clearly showed what you had cast hexagram 30 with a changing line, line 2. The new hexagram that generates is 14. And you were given guidance on this basis, which looks really good.

 

[amy luisa]

Thank you so much for replying!!!!

what i was confused about was -
should i have been thinking of the person when i cast the i-ching (which i did) its just that it is so good, that i don't feel it with him as we are at a standpoint now. Just was thinking that maybe it was talking about another love. but this guy is the only one. The reading was so sweet, but i could not believe it...as this relationship right now is seeming to be at a Standing point....should i ask again at a later date? please advise

also
I don't understand what Fkegan said when he said....I take it your Oracle was hex. 30. 2 >> 14? is that what i drew? i don't know the terminology...


Thank you for helping me and for understanding my confusion. i guess its too good to belive..we are separate and i feel distance....maybe that is just my interpretation i guess, just wondering.....

 

[amy luisa]

My Confusion ???

Well going from this wonderful reading to - - -

..."Reduce emotions..or emotions are reduced around the whole thing"""

in a course of about 2 days, is confusing enough.

just don;'t understand. need to read up on how something can change right away - did i cast the i ching incorrectly?