My Sex Life during Next Year 48.4> 28

[marybluesky]

Hello!

I asked: How will be my sex life during next year? and got 48.4> 28.

My take: the sexuality is like a Well (48): always there, whether you notice & use it or not. If you lose the proper means to be in touch with your sexuality, there will be misfortune.

The line says: " The well is being rebuilt. No blame." My sexuality will be revived, healed, recovered. Although the line talks about walling the well, to me it doesn't necessarily mean that I should avoid sexual action; it rather talks about a framework in which the repair takes place - be it a relationship, new experiences, self-discovery, ...

Then there is hexagram 28, Great Exceeding:
"Excess! The ridgepole sags. It is favorable to have some goal (or destination) in view. Success!"
"A number of firm lines is generally auspicious, but there can be too much of a good thing!"
The year seems too sexual. This excess of sexual energy/opportunity/experience should be directed towards a precise destination before it gets destructive.

I'll appreciate your comments on my cast.

 

[becalm]

We talking about 2019?

 

[becalm]

I think line 4 is talking about what you want in a sexual way, sex without ties, sex with a present partner that needs to be redefined or what is it? I think you need to work out what you want out of having sexual relations and be upfront and direct about how you want the sexual relations to be. I'm not sure why you're using the word sexuality here? I always thought sexuality was your sexual orientation.

 

[marybluesky]

becalm I talk about a year from now on (March 2019-March 2020). And by sexuality I mean everything related to my sexual desires (I'm not a native English speaker).

 

[mandarin_23]

Sexuality is the fountain of life.
It's emotional - and the Yi confirms this, and also asks you to somehow protect it, or maybe there is something which still needs to be cured, maybe some older violations or doubts or so. There is sexual or emotional overflow (28), so you are probably asked to be a strong person, not to be overwhelmed by feelings, to think about yourself, your values, boundaries or so. Get prepared to enjoy.

 

[mandarin_23]

Sexuality is the fountain of life.
It's emotional - and the Yi confirms this, and also asks you to somehow protect it, or maybe there is something which still needs to be cured, maybe some older violations or doubts or so. There is sexual or emotional overflow (28), so you are probably asked to be a strong person, not to be overwhelmed by feelings, to think about yourself, your values, boundaries or so. Get prepared to enjoy.

 

[marybluesky]

Update:
48.4 says: "The well is being rebuilt. No blame."
And now I've found a frame to work on my sexual aspects; to become more experienced with the help of a friend.
I wrote in the initial post that 28 may mean "too much of a good thing"- in this context I hope it to be true: I hope the newt months to be highly "sexual", even if that means too much. Admittedly there are a number of guys I'd like to have sex with. It's the time of sexual fun & exploration after a long time of unrequited romantic desire.

 

[CheersC]

I think that hexagram was related to encounters, so perhaps you will make a good encounter which will give you the chance to have sex?

 

[marybluesky]

I think that hexagram was related to encounters, so perhaps you will make a good encounter which will give you the chance to have sex?

Maybe... how exciting!

 

[CheersC]

Maybe... how exciting!

yes, especially to talking... maybe getting to know him could start from some gathering.
it's just what i remember, hope it applies here.

 

[Freedda]

Well, whatever it's saying, it seems you only have 4 more months to work it out, or have it manifest. How's it been going so far - now that you're nine months into it?

 

[marybluesky]

Well, whatever it's saying, it seems you only have 4 more months to work it out, or have it manifest. How's it been going so far - now that you're nine months into it?

There have been opportunities to get sexual- but with guys who had decided to be in so-called exclusive relationships with other girls despite being attracted to me; so I turned them down.
Recently I decided to explore my sexuality with the help of a single male friend. We've had a few experiences so far and I'm determined to go further.
There is also a new guy I'm getting to know slowly. The pace is excellent for me at this stage. If our relationship turns to something more than mere friendship I'd like to get sexy with him I guess.

 

[marybluesky]

Update:
Well, now we are March 2020. A year has past, and that's my report:

I had no-strings-sex with multiple partners (28- too much?) and I reached/discovered some aspects of my sexuality (the well being recovered?). Fun journey.

Also, as @becalm wrote, I redefined the way I wanted to have sex (another way to look at 48.4). Before, I wanted it to be with an exclusive romantic partner, despite having the fantasy of a libertine life. In the autumn I decided to grasp any opportunity that seemed good enough without presumptions and see what happens. The result was good. It sounded normal and suited me.

 

[Qiaozhi Yeats]

Update:
Well, now we are March 2020. A year has past, and that's my report:

I had no-strings-sex with multiple partners (28- too much?) and I reached/discovered some aspects of my sexuality (the well being recovered?). Fun journey.

Also, as @becalm wrote, I redefined the way I wanted to have sex (another way to look at 48.4). Before, I wanted it to be with an exclusive romantic partner, despite having the fantasy of a libertine life. In the autumn I decided to grasp any opportunity that seemed good enough without presumptions and see what happens. The result was good. It sounded normal and suited me.

The first time I divined for you on this question in 2008 I got hexagram 16 no changing lines, and I still think this applies, but maybe it is time to divine again;?;

 

[marybluesky]

The first time I divined for you on this question in 2008 I got hexagram 16 no changing lines, and I still think this applies, but maybe it is time to divine again;?;

I joined this forum in 2018 and haven't asked such a question before Maybe you're talking about someone else?