My turning Point? 50.2.3>35

[nygirl]

Hello everyone,

After many emotions up and down the last few weeks, in touch with an old love, but no clue as to where that may lead, and not knowing the real lesson of it yet (a chance at love again, or closure/letting go with love), I am about worn out.
I asked Yi today "help me to see" and got 50.2.3 >35.

I think 50 is about letting things cook for a while, waiting for the transformation within myself, not "cooking" in a rush, like making homeade soup instead of fast food? I think I'm getting the big picture, but not so much the changing lines. And 35 is the sun rising up thru the fog...whis is apt, since my brain is full of fog at the moment.
Can anyone give me some finer points about 50, and the changing lines that lead me to 35? How do I get there? Thank you everyone:bows:

 

[pocossin]

I asked Yi today "help me to see" and got 50.2.3 >35.

You have eyes (☲) in both hexagrams But you want to see better this relationship that blows both hot and cold. The sun above the earth implies that things are warming up again, and you are once again in his spotlight.

Nine in the second place means:
There is food in the ting.
My comrades are envious,
But they cannot harm me.
Good fortune.

Not all your friends support this relationship, but they won't interfer.

Nine in the third place means:
The handle of the ting is altered.
One is impeded in his way of life.
The fat of the pheasant is not eaten.
Once rain falls, remorse is spent.
Good fortune comes in the end.

Although changes are needed for the relationship to flourish and not all needs are satisfied, there are no lasting impediments.

 

[nygirl]

Pocossin, thank you for your insight and comments. I aksed for help to see and you tell me there are eyes everywhere! And very true this relationship runs hot and cold, and that I'm trying to take a closer look at it, objectively and not just with my feelings alone. But I do feel in the spotlight again so to speak, this was not a minor love affair of old, however the future remains to be seen. Thank you for your down to earth and hopeful words