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blue iris

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Me and my boss have been having difficulties for a while and this resulted in him not wanting to extend my contract which leaves me without a job in a few months.

I feel resentful and anrgy, must admit. He said that I am too intelligent for this job:rolleyes: and too capabale, that I need someting more demanding.

But the bottom line is, that he is very dominant and he doesn't stand that sometimes I don't agree with him. He needs very subservient people - I realized that now, up till now I believed that he appreciated my intelligence and my integrity. He said some things to me which were really bellow any dignity.

It is a rather complicated situation and it would be difficult to explain all the details here...the thing is that in the beginning he needed my knowledge and integrity to cope with some situations at work, and now he is sending me away because of these same qualities.

I aksed Yi Jing to help me with this:

Give insight into this situation between me and my boss:

I got 5 unchanging.

Well, I guess I need to wait and see, it is true that the situation is now pending, he said he would do everything he can to find me a new job (he has connections).

How should I act in this situation?
64.2->35

Wait, I feel like I want to take action (I would like to tell him how I feel), but I shouldn't.

How the situation will develop?
60 unchanging.
Well, I will need to restrain myself and not show my true feelings.

Then I ask: How should I behave with him?
I got 42.5->27

I really don't understand this fifth line...should I be forgiving, or what??:confused:

I would really appreciate your help here, please. This is really bugging me. Help me see the situation clearly, please.
 
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diamanda

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I think there are more developments in store, so perhaps that's
why the 'wait', and 'don't act yet'. As to how to behave with him,
just be your normal good self! Imo there's no need to 'forgive'
anything, because it's not personal against you. Sadly your boss's
breed is widespread, especially in high positions, and it's
irrelevant to them if you forgive him or not, as he obviously
doesn't know any better. Perhaps he'll realise it's in his benefit
to keep you, and will change his tune? Hope so!
 

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Give insight into this situation between me and my boss:

I got 5 unchanging.

Basically don't do anything, just hang in there and see what happens.

How should I act in this situation?
64.2->35

Again wait, bide your time.

How the situation will develop?
60 unchanging.

You are going to have to accept the situation and remain quiet.

Then I ask: How should I behave with him?
I got 42.5->27

Just be as pleasant as possible.
 

blue iris

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Thank you, guys, I also hope that maybe the tune will change.
 

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