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annietyme

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I ask the I Ching to show me an image of what my life would be if I broke off my current relationship & I am so unsure of how to interpret 14.1 > 50.

Please help me, I am all twisted up inside over this decision.
 

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Hi Annie,

I'm wondering if your deeper question might have been whether or not to break it off? ...If so, the answer makes good sense. You might want to look at it with this in mind, and see how you feel about it then.

Rinda
 

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the image in 14 is of the sun revealing everything on earth. which suggests to me that it is obvious to yourself that it is time to change something in your life, possibly through making this move. the results of such a change are always unpredictable, although you must be anticipating (or hoping) that things will improve if you do leave this person. so be sure you really want to do this.

in any case, line 1 suggests that thing will pan out the same way they do for most people in this kind of situation, after all, breaking up a relationship and dealing with the consequences is never that easy to do,

i think in this case, the Caldron (50) is about giving up self interest and accepting the consequences of such a decision, that it will not be easy to make a break and move on. however. if you make this move without doing it on a false pretext, such as blaming the person for something they did not do, then there will be less fallout.

maybe you need to clearer about what you want from such a break, or are trying to gauge if you would be better off if you did?
 

annietyme

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Yeah i guess that is what i am trying to figure out if i should break it off and would i be happier if i did...
 

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Annietyme,

Hex 14 with line 1 changing looks to me as though some part of you is being damaged by staying in this relationship, or you fear being damaged in some way by ending the relationship. Line one, however, encourages you to go forward with your plans without fear of harm. It would be a good move.

The Cauldron, hex 50, indicates that you would be going through a growth process to get to get to a good place, with the help of friends and recovery tools available to you.

I went through a broken relationship about a month ago. In my healing, I am discovering how much more abusive that relationship was for me than I thought and how much better off I am now, although I still hurt and want to fix things quicker. The healing process can be slower than you'd like, but it's quite valuable.

Take care of yourself whatever you do!

Chris
 

annietyme

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Wow, that really broke it all down for me. That is exactly what i am scared of, losing out on my soulmate leaving him or even by not leaving him.

it's such a hard decision & i want to make sure i make the right one.
 

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