Need of interpretation please!

[Snow45]

Hi all,

I started a thread last week wondering if I would get back with ex. The interpretation I received was so incredibly accurate. We interpreted as he was seeing someone new and any contact I make will not go well at all. I wasn't sure if there was indeed someone new in his life until the weekend.

I went out and saw him with this someone new. We were in a small place and he arrived after me. He must have seen me as he was coming in because I was outside in the smoking, I didn't realise he was there until i made my way inside to see him out with his someone new. Because it was a small place our groups joined and we ended up "hanging out" for a small while, whilst the new person was there and giving me bad looks.. I had to act nice ofcourse,... I dont think this new relationship is serious or will be.

The next day I woke up so angry and upset I messaged him to let him know this... no reply.. as predicted, it didn't go well at all, .

I have asked the a series of questions the last few days I need help with. I really do want to move on from this,

is he thinking about me : 26 last line changing to 11
will he contact me soon : 36 unchanging

I proceed to ask will he contact me again instead of soon and got 36 again :O but this time line 3.4.5 changing to 17

Then I asked if we will be together romantically again : 14 line 5 changing to 1

If someone could give me an idea what all these hex's are referring too.. positive? not now but maybe in the future? ... It might be to late then.

 

[Windrell]

Dear Snow45, it is crystal clear that HE LEFT & SMOOTHLY MOVES ON TO THE NEXT NEW CHAPTER IN HIS LIFE.
Have no expectations at all, accept all your feelings and, after a period of darkness, the light of a new love will come back to you....

 

[Snow45]

Thanks Windrell, you put it very clear.. Do you think you could possibly elaborate on each of the hexagrams? think it will help me learn for my own future interpretations. I thought some of those answer were positive, so I would like to see where I am going wrong, Thanks again.

 

[Trojina]

It depends what you mean by 'positive' surely. Maybe he is no good for you

http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?8682-Positive-and-Negative-Hexagrams I always like this tale from that thread

The Daoist Farmer
Adapted from the Huainanzi, circa 139 BCE

A farmer named Sei Weng owned a beautiful mare which was praised far
and wide. One day this wonderful horse disappeared. The people of his village
offered sympathy to Sei Weng for his great misfortune. Sei Weng said simply,
"What makes you think this is bad?"
A few days later the lost mare returned, followed by a whole herd of wild
horses, led by a beautiful wild stallion. The village congratulated Sei Weng for his
great good fortune. He said, "What makes you think this is good?"
Some time later, Sei Weng's only son, while riding the stallion, fell off and
broke his leg. The village people once again expressed their sympathy at Sei
Weng's misfortune. Sei Weng again said, "What makes you think this is bad?"
Soon after, a war broke out and all the young men of the village except Sei
Weng's lame son were drafted and sent into a horrible battle. The village people
were amazed as Sei Weng's good luck. But Sei Weng only replied, "What makes
you think this is good?"

Also beware of thinking the I Ching is just a bunch of predictions or a mind reading tool. It's like a poem, there is not just one way to read it. I don't think it's certain what he's thinking. To find that out you would need to speak to him.

 

[Tim K]

26 refers to Taming of your desire to reconnect.
Stop this obsessive thinking, move on (26.6) to peace, by following the higher ideals.

36 hide your light, no you won't hear from him.
36 - 17, no you won't, obey/follow the law of time[17] (comments from Takashima's Ekidan).
Overcome this desire, lay low for a while, let this suffering come through you and let it go [36].


14.5 - 1
Shine your light, the right man will come, don't force anybody into a union.
I don't think you will be together again.

 

[rosada]

26.6 - 11. No, he doesn't think of you. 26. image is of people telling each other tales of the past. The 6th line says we're past the past. He no longer thinks about the old times. 11.Peace, going with the flow = he's moved on.
36. Darkness - he does not contact you soon.
36. - 17. - he does not contact you, the relationship is dark, it's over, he's gone to bed.

14.5 - 1 You have already been told there will be no further contact so when you ask a second question the I Ching assumes you already understand the first answer. So the second answer does not contradict the first answer but may give further clarification. So since you already have been told no there will be no further contact 14.5 -1 encourages you that this will prove to be a good thing, allowing you to make very positive new beginnings.

Even if you don't totally believe your hexagrams I think it is useful to act as if you did. In other words, whether or not the two of you ever reunite the I Ching says it is best you assume you wont and act accordingly.

 

[Windrell]

Thanks Windrell, you put it very clear.. Do you think you could possibly elaborate on each of the hexagrams? think it will help me learn for my own future interpretations. I thought some of those answer were positive, so I would like to see where I am going wrong, Thanks again.

Yes, of course, thank you for trusting my interpretations!

"Is he thinking about me?" Hex26, 6>11
No, he has disciplined himself, hex26, and he smoothly, keeping a low profile, hex11, is moving through the line 6 of 26: to shoulder the avenue of the heavens, meaning various opportunities are offered to him...

"Will he contact me soon?" Hex.36 fixed, darkening of the light, it is obvious: NO
"Will he contact me again?" Hex.36 3, 4, 5>17
Hex 17 is about making adjustments in accordance with the occasion. The steps are:
Line 3 is the only yang line here, signifying him. Line 3 is in correlation with line 6, and intends to replace it.
He has made up his mind.
Line 3 has one feminine line below and three feminine lines above: there are several women around him and he is a persistent hunter....
Line 4 is entering into the left belly, acquiring the heart of Darkness, and then leaving the front yard:
This describes you: you will go through a dark night of the soul, you will realize the reason and the lesson of this relationship, and you will enter the Light for good!
Line 5, describes the dak period and reassures you to have courage: it is advantageous to persist in remaining bright internally but in darkness externally, it is needed for your soul brewing leading to catharsis ...

"Will we be together romantically again?" Hex 14, 5>1
Hex 1 denotes a man, him, who possesses a wealthy, at a high-ranking (line5) woman!
He is after money and power, my friend!

I Ching does NOT tell anything about returning/remorse/mutual influence etc..
I dedicate you the lyrics of "disco La Passione":
" And now I know, the pain inside is the price you pay to ride,
Into the brightest flame,
NEVER THE SAME AGAIN!"

I personally have paid that price, and I tell you it's worthwhile!

 

[Snow45]

Hey guys,

Sorry for my late thank you, I have being trying to process the information and to move on. I feel better about the situation now and letting go. It's being tough, but it is much less clouded, and freedom is settling in. Anyway, thank you all for taking the time to comment, much love :bows: