Need some help with 32 and 56.2

[seeker]

I have finally moved on from Thomas, everyone say hallaluyah

I asked a few weeks ago about going out with a new guy, the response was positive, so away I went. He is from Romania and has a friend visiting, so have only been able to go out one time, but we have talked online or on the phone, sometimes both, almost everday for the past month, and he keeps saying he wants to see me again, is hoping to get together this weekend and maybe for Valentines. However, he also says he does not want a committment, which I find confusing since we talk so much and he has stated he is not even looking for anyone else, though said it was fine if I did. He is not my usual type, though maybe that is not a bad thing, so I am even confused as to why I am so drawn to him, but I am. Confused about both his and my reactions, and concerned I was just rebounding, I asked 2 questions:

What is going on with me, why am I so drawn to Daniel? 56.2

Seems to say he is place to rest, he is comfortable for me. That fits because the first time we met in person, he hugged me and not only did I feel a surge of passion (which he states he felt as well, and has never happened to him that way before), but I also just felt really safe.

So, what is going on with Daniel in regards to me? 32 unchanging

That one has me kind of stumped. I usually see 32 as being about perseverance and endurance, which I would see as positive in a relationship, but maybe I am misinterpreting in this case. We talked last night, and I told him that while I am not looking to get married or move in with anyone, I would like to be someones girlfriend, so I want a level of committment, and though we sometimes have a language barrier, it appeared he did not want that. I said I could date him until I found someone who was more interested in what I want, and he said great. How does that fit with 32, and should I even continue based on that? Seems like I am just setting myself up to get my heart broken again. Unlike Thomas, this guy is actually interested in seeing me, but not sure it is going anywhere.

Anyway, sorry so long, just wanted to give enough info to be able to interpret the answers. It was so hard to get over Thomas, I do not want to go through that again.

 

[seeker]

after typing above, also asked what potential is there in a relationship with daniel, 10.2, which I think says to be patient and let things unfold as they will. maybe he is not ready or just working through something, and I just have to let him figure it out without pushing him. oh goody, we all know how good I am at that

 

[pargenton]

Hi Seeker,
yes 32 static is a puzzle, given what you said, a long lasting action and usually linked to a stable marriage, a long term couple.

Could indicate the direction, that is you should go towards the direction of a stable relationship, a kind of hint, since this is the kind of relationship you probably want.

10.2 is positive but the image is that of a hermit, a recluse, a solitary man, so could indicate a period of isolation, which does not fit too well in a picture of a stable relationship

Could be you have to wait, letting him free to be alone (10.2) in order to achieve 32, which seems what you want.

bye
Paolo

 

[seeker]

Yes, I think that is exactly it. Funny how things work out sometimes. He called last night to say he had a test today just up the street from me and was going to stop by after. The test was at 7:30 this morning and he lives 30-40 minutes away, so while discussing it we realized it made more sense for him to come and spend the night. That way he did not have to get up so early. We had a long talk last night, with him admitting that it is not that he does not want a relationship, but that he is afraid to have one. His ex-wife lied to him and had an affair, and he said since then it's like his heart is frozen. But he also said he does have some feelings for me, though not as deep as I have for him. Neither of us is interested in seeing anyone else, so we decided to work on it and see where it goes. I'm just going to be patient and do everything I can to show him that not everyone is like his wife. Thanks for the input.