New relationship 63.1

[msmith]

Hello all,

I met someone recently and we have several things in common. There is a bit of an age gap though so I was a bit hesitant and I asked a few questions.

What to do about X? 63.1 > 39 (tail soaked no mistake)... I guess this seems positive
I also asked what if I date X? (13 UC). And how to relate to X? (4 UC)

The relationship has since gone beyond just being friends. Is there anything here I should be concerned about? Is the tail soaked thing in 63.1 just a minor thing? Thanks for any help.

 

[msmith]

... so I guess I should take 63.1 as a generally positive thing? any experiences in a relationship context? thank you.

 

[diamanda]

A friend of mine had this answer about a guy. Unfortunately their liaison didn't go very far. The 'soaking of the tail' most probably means sexual encounter, and 39 a block ahead. 13 and 4 are also not very promising for romantic relationships. Sorry, I really do hope I'm wrong and it plays out differently for you.

 

[msmith]

Ok thanks. Well yeah I hope it works out. We haven't had a sexual encounter yet. I have been celibate for a long time so maybe it means me getting my head messed up again, hence I'm taking it slowly. I asked what I need to know now about us and got 25.3.4.5.6 to 36, so I guess I shouldn't disentangle at this stage anyway(?). It feels good so far so will see how it goes. Regards.

 

[Lavalamp]

What to do about X?
63.1 > 39 (tail soaked no mistake)...
I think this is about you not having been involved with anyone because of 39, and the line says although you are already across to a place to start trying again, you are taking it slow, maybe a bit too slow. But that's better than too fast, and there's nothing wrong with that (no fault it says.)

I also asked what if I date X? (13 UC).
Same crossing the water as in 63, which it says is a good thing to do. A kind of a partnering metaphor sometimes, a couple crossing a river would mean marriage, a commitment. Working towards that is good, it will take determination. Expand your social circle, try to be out in the open. I don't think this is about him in particular, more about you and your development.

And how to relate to X? (4 UC)
Hex 4 is about learning. You are dealing with those more experienced than you, so deal with them accordingly. Don't presume, and try to read the signs, be able to take a hint. It is okay to ask questions, but accept the answers and don't demand attention by constant questioning - or something like that.

Good luck. This is not a bad reading, you have to try.

- LL

 

[Lavalamp]

"what I need to know now about us?"
25.3.4.5.6 Too many lines, so I'd look at overall hex.
No ill intentions on anyone's part, good hearts so if everyone behaves themselves things should be successful. Of course if people do not behave it won't. If someone is not as they should be ( has a problem, a medical issue so is unavailable, or is fickle maybe?) it would be unfortunate.

36 - Better to protect the light for a while from the public.

- LL

 

[msmith]

Thank you for the really helpful responses. (and Happy New Year to all btw..!)