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claire

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Hello. I asked the oracle about the new relationship I am having with a man and the answer is hexagram 3 turning into 15, changing lines 1, 3 and 5. Insights are really appreciated and needed.
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Hello Claire,

If you had line 4 -- seeks marriage, I would have thought there'd be a positive outcome. But your moving lines speak of caution and suggest not advancing. When you look at 15, it says -- he is strong enough to advance boldly but modesty and caution will lead to greater success. Also, you need help from someone else in the relationship. Maybe a go-between? I suppose that once you have help, you may slowly begin to take the relationship forward. Just my humble opinion.

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Yes, line 5 does suggest its a good idea not to have REALLY BIG expectations at the moment - though you could still have quite a nice time with him.

Maybe line 3 is indicating you can't really know where you are with him yet. As Anita says, could be you need a bit more information or a bit of help from someone else.

So you're right at the beginnning in the relationship, things aren't that clear (i know I'm stating the obvious here)so it seems Yi is saying keep your expectations realistic (15), take your time weighing him up (3) have some reservations and maybe seek external input - in crude terms check him out - (subtly of course).

Ultimately though follow your heart/instincts, cos the one area I trust Yi least on is romance !
Maybe cos thats the area we're most blind in. Having said that the answer you got seems quite a definate one - it doesn't say not to carry on with it, but does advise caution.

Hope it works out for you, take it slow, take it easy
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Hi Claire

I won't say too much, Anita and Louise have said it beautifully, I will just add, the image of line 3 is of a hunter chasing a deer, and the more he/she chases it, the deeper it disappears into the forest. There may be a hint here as to how to approach this, to chase after this person may not be the best thing to do, but prepare the ground so to speak. Number three is about beginnings, and turning disorder into order. This is usually not done without the help of aids, or friends. Perhaps the best approach is not direct, but indirect...

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Thanks for all the insights. I feel so sad! So so sad. I dont know what to say or do, but thank you anyway.
 
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Hi Claire

It's hard for me to put into English words: Could it be, that the man lives in a "fixed structure" (the neck), something that binds him to a place, a setting or whatever? There is a will, a potential, but no fulfillment possible (clouds, but not rain)?

I might be completely off, though.

Wish you good luck and healing
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Hello.
This relationship still is going on, although there would be some changes for sure. I asked the IChing about the present situation of this relationship and the answer I got is Hexagram 50, no changing lines.
Can someone help with a whole insight from the beginning and to what it had lead, at least by now?
I am trying to make this work out. If someone wills to help it would be really appreciate and welcomed.
Another thing: what can be my best approach to make the best to come? Is it possible?
I really appreciate some help.
THANK YOU A LOT!
Claire.
 

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Could it be it's time to get rid of some stagnating stuff? The hexagram deals with the establishment of a 'new regime'. It's a wonderful hexagram though. Could it be that you need to make some sort of sacrifice? It symbolises the sacrifical cauldron after all. Shall look up my I Ching on Love for you too.

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Claire

Hexagram 50 is a lot like the Temperance card in the Tarot. It just takes time. The cauldron is a cooking utensil, set over a burning fire. The temperature has to be just right and the timing has to be right, if they are then the food cooks of itself, and it is just a matter of timing, when the food is ready. If the timing is wrong, then as Anita says, there will be stagnation. Waiting in itself is a form of sacrifice, we sacrifice ourself for the future good, when the meal is cooked. We sacrifice of our time as we prepare the meal. With no changing lines the judgment is very beneficial. Supreme good fortune. Success. Oh, and just as a matter of humor, there is an old saying, "the way to a man's heart is through his stomach."

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Also, Claire, I feel this fits right into the first reading you received with hexagram #3. Here too, it was a matter of difficult beginnings, and there is a timing element in watching the relationhip grow. It requires helpers at first, then later on a more direct approach.

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Hi Claire,

Here's the I Ching on Love

Question: Do we have a future together?

You need have no fear of the future. There is a promise of good fortune. You are already aware that the greatest joy lies not in the future but in the present. Of the many stages through which one passes in the journey of life, the most important is the awareness that life consciously enjoyed in the present yields the greater fruit of the future. This is wisdom of which you have a keen understanding.

Best for your Quest

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Thanks so so so so much for you all.
I think this can turn out in something good, at least I read all your thoughts as something very promissing, I mean, with good seeds.
I am not thinking about the future, although I think women do it, but I am by now enjoying this ride and it is giving me joy and also a cote of sacrifice, as the Iching said.
I am learning a lot from this experience, and it is giving me joy.
If you all have something more to add and share I would love to hear.
I loved your interpretations and also loved the IcHING on love, I didnt know it. Really great.
Is this Iching on love capable to talk about the feelings that he has for me? If so, can you help a bit on this matter?
I would appreciate.

Thanks so much to you all.
You are lovely and great.

God bless.
Claire.
 

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