New to this, what does it mean?

[Miki123]

Ok so I was just browsing the internet when I found this site which caught my attention;I don't even understand exactly how it works but for fun (and now I m curious and a little worried) ) I did a free reading. So my question was 'how to make something happen with my crush?'-silly I know and yi s response was hexagram 54 the marrying maiden. It doesn't sound good at all. How do you interpret this? The thing with my crush: we study at the same college so we see each other almost every day, we barely talk but matched on tinder and he really flirted with me for a few days, then nothing. Now he completely ignores me and when I asked him what happened he said that it s not that he lost interest in me but has a lot to do right now (indeed he s very busy but when you like someone..you find time). His ex is in our group too and I think that until recently they still were in some sort of.. situation. And one more thing.. I feel like he isn t ready for a relationship right now, maybe that s why he decided to cut it off before it even started? I can t believe I m looking for advice online haha it means that it s really on my mind

 

[Miki123]

I asked another question, "what is the potential of a relationship with my crush?" And it s 33 (retreat) turning to 14 (great possession). 33.1.2.5 to 14. What do you think?

 

[moss elk]

So my question was 'how to make something happen with my crush?'-silly I know and yi s response was hexagram 54 the marrying maiden. It doesn't sound good at all.

Hi mihaela,
54 is a picture of a woman marrying as a 2nd wife, 2nd in status. The judgement says from Hilary's wikiwing: ‘Marrying maiden. Setting out to bring order – pitfall. No direction brings harvest.’
Yi is discouraging you from attempting to make something happen here. He may be in relationship with someone right now.

33 says to retreat from him.

 

[bradford]

The overarching themes in 54 are impatience, haste, and settling for less.
The timing is right to make a move in a couple of the lines, though.

 

[moss elk]

The overarching themes in 54 are impatience, haste, and settling for less.
The timing is right to make a move in a couple of the lines, though.

Just to clarify for mihaela,
I think Bradford is refering to some of the lines in 54 as somewhat encouraging, but I think mihaela got 54 unchanging (in which case, don't read any of the lines, only the image and judgement)