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druuna

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hi all... im so grateful i found this site. i love the i ching as much as i find it hard to understand!
i hope some expert here can help me w this hex . - darkening of the light -
i asked if this person i really care about-hes been distant for over 2 months now- will contact me by the new moon in virgo this month - which would be the 10th and 11th - so 2 days from today...

i got the 36 with 5 changing...

i dont know if the answer refers to me ,since i asked if he ll contact me, or to him, since he s the core of the question...
is the prince chi referring to him or me?
im so confused...
and the changing hex. into 63 seems positive but is about the whole situation or the phone call/email i m waiting for?
thank you for yr help...
~peace and joy to all ~
 

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Dear drunna,
You have asked the I Ching a "Yes or No" question. The responces to Yes or No questions are not so easily understood. the I Ching hexagrams just don't mean one or the other. One technique I've used to try to decipher the answer to a yes or no question is to interpret the hexagram from both angles. Ask yourself how 36.5 would support a "Yes" answer in this instance, and then ask how it would be read to support a "No."
Unfortunately, I'm seeing it as meaning "No." 36.5 sounds in this instance like someone who is carrying a secret torch even when there is no hope and that final 63. with no change lines sounds like this friendship has completed itself. But hey, it could also be read I think as meaning you wont hear from him by the new moon, but don't give up hope, you may hear from him eventually.
Sorry to not be more encouraging. I hope you'll let us know how things eventually work out.
 

druuna

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hi rosada..and thanks for yr interpretation... i dont know what means look at the hex from the angles... how do u do that?
i really do hope he ll be back in my life..last time he sent me a message was 3 weeks ago he only said 'hello..talk soon' but he hasnt so far.
few weeks ago i asked I-ching if there was a reunion between us within the month of september and i got the hex. 50 w /no changing lines.
i think that was positive?
and how do u get changing lines out of the transformed hex? -since u said my 63 w no changing lines implies that it could have had changing lines?-

anyways, i soooo hope that if is negative it only means i wont get that call on new moon-since that was my specific question -- and not that is over ... omg i cant even think about it...:eek:
thank you again rosada! i ll let u know if he calls /not after the 12th. i put that date because in the last 2 months he briefly IMed me only twice and both times was with the moon in virgo...
 

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When I say "interpret the hexagram from both angles" , I mean interpret the hexagram as if it is saying yes and then interpret it as if it is saying no.
When I said "final 63. with no change lines" I did not mean to imply that there could be instances where the final hexagrams lines should be considered. I was simply underscoring that 63, After Completion was the final word.
Hope this clears things up.
 

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hi rosada ....ok the moon in virgo is gone, almost,...of course he hasnt contacted me...
somehow the hex 36 answered the question...:(

since a while ago i got the hex 50 in response if he ll contact me in the month of september i have another 19 days to see if that was correct as well ...i think that is a positive one... we ll see what happens......
 

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