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I know many of you don't want to answer me questions regarding I tried to reconcile with my ex lover. I've tried to let go, the feelings just keep coming back

After not speaking to him for a week, I called him last night. He was nice and patient when we talked about what's going on with our life. I got my hopes up. I asked iching if he wants to get back together, I got hex 19. I read the post on here and took it as a good sign. I asked again should I give up trying to get back with him. I got hex 53. 3.4., sounds like iching didn't want me to give up yet. So today I write him an email about how I felt about him and getting back with him. I called him see what he thinks. He was very mad. He said I couldn't leave him alone and have to keep stressing out. so I asked iching again tonight "should I stop trying to get him back". I got hex 38.3.5 to 1. It's a completely different answer as I asked yesterday. I guess I shouldn't have sent him the email, but it's too late.
 

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You can't stop wanting him back. There's no switch for turning feelings on and off, but the more you chase, the more he is going to distance himself. Hexagram 38 (imo) means you should find other friends. Line 3: Halting your pursuit has a good end. Line 5: Hilary's 'Your ancestor bites through the skin' suggests turning more to old friends. It's the holiday season. Make plans now that do not include your ex. And then, hexagram 1, you'll get your energy back.
 

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Tom, you're totally right. I guess I just wish there would be a switch for me to turn my feelings off, so I don't have to be suffered. I guess I have to keep trying, I have joined many different of group (hiking, dancing, etc.) to distract myself.

Btw, could you please confirm my thought on this question? I asked iching if I will find someone in 2012. I am not sure if that's too far away for iching to predict. I got hex 49.1 to hex 31. I think it's telling me only change when it's necessary as it says,

"Nine at the beginning means:
Wrapped in the hide of a yellow cow.

Changes ought to be undertaken only when there is nothing else to be done. Therefore at first the utmost restraint is necessary. One must become firm in one’s mind, control oneself – yellow is the color of the mean, and the cow is the symbol of docility – and refrain from doing anything for the time being, because any premature offensive will bring evil results."

Am I correct?

You can't stop wanting him back. There's no switch for turning feelings on and off, but the more you chase, the more he is going to distance himself. Hexagram 38 (imo) means you should find other friends. Line 3: Halting your pursuit has a good end. Line 5: Hilary's 'Your ancestor bites through the skin' suggests turning more to old friends. It's the holiday season. Make plans now that do not include your ex. And then, hexagram 1, you'll get your energy back.
 

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Will I find someone in 2012?
49.1 > 31


With 31 as the resulting hexagram, the casting is auspicious. An alternate translation of 49 is 'Skin', which suggests to me you could take steps to improve your appearance. I understand the first line as a time of preparation, not just inaction. And I think joining those social groups is a good idea.
 

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Thank you Tom. I appreciate your input. I am going to the gym 2 or 3 times a week. I am not fat, but I think it might help improving my appearance. I probably need to improve my make up skills and get some new clothing I guess also. Other than that, I am really not sure what to do and what not to do when it comes to improving my appearance.

In addition, if you don't mind, could you please explain hexagram 45.2.6 to 6 regarding to get back to a person? (I am sorry I keep going back in circle. I promise this is the last time I ask for help for this question. I just want to have peace of mind, that's all)


Will I find someone in 2012?
49.1 > 31


With 31 as the resulting hexagram, the casting is auspicious. An alternate translation of 49 is 'Skin', which suggests to me you could take steps to improve your appearance. I understand the first line as a time of preparation, not just inaction. And I think joining those social groups is a good idea.
 

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regarding to get back to a person?
45.2.6 > 6


You received the Temple hexagram and the hexagram of Contention, that is, of temporary defeat. Line 2 recommends sacrifice, and line 6 describes grieving. This suggests to me that you could get back together by giving up your goal for the time being and working on yourself. Anything that improves your morale and independence will improve your attractiveness.
 

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Thank you Tom. This is great advice. I need to work on myself regardless of the result. Thanks again, I really appreciate it.

regarding to get back to a person?
45.2.6 > 6


You received the Temple hexagram and the hexagram of Contention, that is, of temporary defeat. Line 2 recommends sacrifice, and line 6 describes grieving. This suggests to me that you could get back together by giving up your goal for the time being and working on yourself. Anything that improves your morale and independence will improve your attractiveness.
 

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