No guilt ? 19.4.5>58

[Endless]

Hi clarity friends !
High temperature and excess of coffee got me yesterday into insomnia so, as it usually happens, I went over my past mistakes and achievements. I don't see myself as an unsattisfied person, but, as many of us, I tend to feel aflicted when I realised I hurt somebody or did something that made someone feel miserable. I want to convice myself that it's impossible not to do it in an innocent way, but, in this case, I feel myself a bit guilty. I wouldn't like to hurt anyone again that way and I promise myself I won't. I didn't even talk to this person. She was my friend's girlfriend, who remained hidden to my eyes until it was too late. After that, lots of problems appeared and attacks from their common friends were directed to me. I went through a rough time and they are no longer togheter.
Although this is an old issue, I couldn't help but asking Yi, How was my behaviour regarding X ?

19.4.5>58

Unless I got confused along the reading, I don't get what the point is. If you have some insights, I'd love to hear about them.
Thank you,
Endless

 

[Endless]

Well, suddenly I saw the light.
I was the one who took the first step in the relationship (sic) as hex 19 shows. In this sense, the advice regarding the 8th month had to be listened, as my experience shows. We spent a good time talking about our lives and works (58). I thought he was someone I could trust but he wasn't. This is the strange part, as 19.4 and 19.5 talk about fine and wise approaches respectively. Anyway it seems that I was not to blame about what happened even if everyone thought I was. And I feel happy about it.

This also reminds me to do a bit more of effort when submitting my readings to the forum.

Thank you again,
Endless

 

[sooo]

Shame is often a virtue; guilt is usually a vice.

 

[Endless]

I agree about what shame means in our culture. It's a pity that many people can't feel it. As the story of king David shows, and many other popular tales, shame is the most important virtue.
Thank you sooo
:bows: