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goddessliss

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Hey,

My usual in any sort of relationship - children,friend, lovers I nurture - can't seem to help it, it's just who I am.

This morning I have asked about a specific new relationship in which, although I am still nurturing as is natural, I am consciously aware not to overdo the whole nurturing thing as I don't want it to be the mainstay of our relationship....

Where will my relationship evolve with M from here -

Hex 48.2.6>53

Line 2 - worn out way of doing things - yep that's it for sure - I don't want to conduct my relationship/s this way anymore

Line 6 - I will now be on the receiving end - Nice that would be!!

Would appreciate your thoughts and intepretations.

be joyous - Liss
 

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Where will my relationship evolve with M from here?
48.2.6 > 53


Can the tigress changes her stripes or the well be moved? But I suppose the question is, 'Will M become more nurturing?' Line 2, Not now. Line 6, but later, Yes.
 

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I see this this way: the relationship starts off with the leaky bucket - you feel unable to continue being drawn on in a way that has broken down.

But as the relationship evolves and as you feel replenished, it is possible you will have much to give and that you will be able to share it in a way that does not feel draining to you. It will be fulfilling for you both
 
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goddessliss

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Thanks pocossin and bamboo - nurturing each other would be the ultimate for me.

These past couple of days I have been at the receiving end of the nurturing so hopefully it continues to be this way. - Liss
 
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A bit of a shock to say the least, but my women's intuition told me something wasn't quite right.
So I asked M a few pertinent questions and it seems he's not quite over his last relationship so I decided to break things with him.

With this in mind I asked Show me a pic of this being the total end to our relationship

50.2.3>35

Hmmm.....looks like it may be just a minor setback - anything further to add would be appreciated.

thks
Liss
 

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Show me a pic of this being the total end to our relationship.
50.2.3 > 35


Well, you know your own mind and the requisites for a relationship. The casting is full of nurturing -- ritual food and infancy (my view). Both lines are negative but say "Good fortune", meaning, I suppose, that separation is for the best. 50.2 "My comrades are envious" implies a lack of support from friends. 50.3 "The fat of the pheasant is not eaten" suggests a lean period. "Once rain falls, remorse is spent" suggests other contacts, not M, since rain moves in from elsewhere, and "The handle of the ting is altered" implies a permanent break.
 

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Line 50.3 to me signifies only a temporary situation, when the handles of the ting have been moved and the best food cannot be eaten.
 

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It is what you make it.

Nurturing type women are awesome, and for the right fella, a dandy mate. She has other qualities besides being nurturing. If nurture was all you did, I suspect the one you nurture could face great peril as a result. The h18 lines referring to what is spoiled by the mother, is a spoiled child. However, the right amount and kind and timing is everything. And, the saying: you get what you give, is not always true. Make it true; why accept less? Nurturing yourself, drinking from the inexhaustible source.
 
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It is what you make it.

Nurturing type women are awesome, and for the right fella, a dandy mate. She has other qualities besides being nurturing. If nurture was all you did, I suspect the one you nurture could face great peril as a result. The h18 lines referring to what is spoiled by the mother, is a spoiled child. However, the right amount and kind and timing is everything. And, the saying: you get what you give, is not always true. Make it true; why accept less? Nurturing yourself, drinking from the inexhaustible source.

Thanks Meng. It sorta wasn't just the ex girlfriend thing - well that was the catalyst - I was sorta hoping we might be able to work through the other stuff I had observed - like the spoilt child thing but then you know his heart still being caught up with another....
Personally I struggle a bit with the child/parent relationship still existing when we are adults and he is still reliant on his parents particularly his father for things.
Bit tricky really cause I haven't had anything to do with my parents for over 15 years because of their emotional and mental abuse so I have had to be more or less self sufficient for much of my life and with my own 3 boys well the parent/child relationship hardly exists we are more friends than anything.....am I being a bit harsh on my quest to meet a man? I don't know :confused:


Ginnie - thankyou I have a feeling I will hear from him again but we will see and as Meng has pointed out there is a bit more to the overall story - Liss
 
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Looks like pocossin interpretation might be right on this one.

We talked a little more and it suddenly dawned on me, intentionally or not, he was really only spending time with me to fill whatever gap he needed until (he believed) him and his ex gf could get back together. That's not to say he didn't like me and we had a great time together but he finally found the courage to ask his ex gf what the go was, because she seemed to keep him dangling, and she said she was totally not interested in being with him now or in the future.
He then sent me a text and said 'well there is no future with her, how about you and me keep doing what we've been doing' Seriously WTF!!

Right now I am inclined to write him off but knowing I am angry and hurt at this time I did ask -

Show me a picture of any further happening btw me and M Hex 1.1.2.3.4>20

Looks like it might be just talking about the present moment Hex 20 overseeing what could be Hex 1 created out of this situation.

- Liss
 

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Show me a picture of any further happening between me and M.
1.1.2.3.4 > 20


The dragon gets as far as a wavering flight, then no go, leading to circumspection. I don't think the relationship is going to fly.
 
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You are right pocossin the relationship is going nowhere.....in the end I told him to stop contacting me as he would say something to encourage me and then the next day he'd changed his mind again - everyone has their breaking point of enough and I have had a enough. - Liss
 

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