Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
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Why am I so Obsessive?
51.3.4 to 36
How to break the obsessive thinking pattern and approach my thoughts in a healthy way?
40.1.3.5 to 43.
It occurred to me, that I have obsessive thinking.
One advice could be: Be aware of your thoughts and when one from the old pattern arises - transform it to something positive or imagine it flowing out to the sun and burning away.
40.1.3.5 > 43 Basically it is up to you to make a decision that you want to brake this cycle and move on. If you carry on like this there will always be a figure like this girl to stick on this pattern. So, the decision is in your hands.
I think you get stuck in the obsessive mode because you're angry. Something in you is angry and saying, "This should not be." It could be also that you become indignant and take offense. You may feel that subtly hurtful communications, flying in the face of the ways you learned to defend yourself growing up, are basically underhanded and unfair. But it's all grist for the mill and these are all learning experiences.
By asking yourself or Yi, "Why am I so Obsessive?" you only affirm that you are overly obsessive. The subconscious doesn't differentiate between a truth or untruth, it simply does what you direct it to do. Tell yourself instead, I'm so glad to be delivered from that habit, and it will believe you.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).