Of what significance was the gift?

[willowfox]

Does he love me? 19.6 > 41 The answer suggests no, he can be helpful and generous but not loving as in a relationship between only two people.

Is he happy having me as a partner? 51.6>21 Again suggest no.

 

[spica]

Hm, how did you come to the conclusion?

Edit: I asked, does he love the other girl?
13.3.4.6>3

Were they once seeing each other? 54 no changing lines.

Will it be yes?

 

[willowfox]

Hm, how did you come to the conclusion?

Edit: I asked, does he love the other girl?
13.3.4.6>3

Were they once seeing each other? 54 no changing lines.

Line 19.6 is on about a person, a sage, who is above worldly things like relationships, he has no need of anything intimate, he is like a monk who has forsaken all ties to the flesh. And hex 41 is about decrease doing without something and in this case love.

Line 51.6 This line is talking about him withdrawing because the situation is in an upheaval status.

Check your previous questions as you have already asked if he loves her I think.

Hex 54 suggests yes.

 

[spica]

Willowfox,
you are right in interpreting the sage thing. "Monk" is a correct term. He has decreased it because I don't think he can help it. He has gone somewhere which I don't even know, because I haven't been speaking to him.
Line 51.6 is also right in that this is upheaval.

Why does he find it so difficult to tell me what is happening? 21
If he doesn't have feelings for me, why is he hanging on? 28.1>43
How will he resolve this situation? 39.2>48
What caused him to be this way in relationships? 32.1.2.6>30
What caused their breakup? (referring to 54 from previous) 49.2.5>34

What does hexagram 54 illustrate about their relationship?
I didn't ask if he loves her before, maybe are you referring to 27.5?
:bows:

I felt I also needed to know:
how does she feel about me? 3.5>24
(it doesn't seem bad, )
Is she spreading stuff about me?
3.2.3.5.6>26

will he eventually get on with her?
5.4>43
(if i am not wrong this seems like a bloodshed hex)

 

[willowfox]

Why does he find it so difficult to tell me what is happening? 21 He is standing back watching how the situation develops, I suppose he is thinking how to deal with the problems that are arising.

If he doesn't have feelings for me, why is he hanging on? 28.1>43 The line is on about him being very cautious and careful as it seems that he has plans to begin something.

How will he resolve this situation? 39.2>48 Directly, face to face.

What caused him to be this way in relationships? 32.1.2.6>30 A restlessness it seems that he is in too much of a hurry to let things develop normally.

What caused their breakup? (referring to 54 from previous) 49.2.5>34 It would appear that he wanted changes in the relationship but she would not agree so a revolution in their affair happened, each seeking what they wanted elsewhere.


What does hexagram 54 illustrate about their relationship? That she was his girlfriend.

 

[spica]

Thanks willowfox,
this is much clearer now. That she was once involved with him - i didnt know that really.
she has been trying to gain his affection and attentio by flaunting things and I am sure he still has feelings for her.

What caused him to be this way in relationships? 32.1.2.6>30 A restlessness it seems that he is in too much of a hurry to let things develop normally.
Regarding this, with me, he is the opposite. He's always biding time and not moving. Sort of stagnating. I'm the one who is restless and wants things to develop faster.

Could you also answer these
I felt I also needed to know:
how does she feel about me? 3.5>24
(it doesn't seem bad, )
Is she spreading stuff about me?
3.2.3.5.6>26

will he eventually get on with her?
5.4>43
(if i am not wrong this seems like a bloodshed hex)

If he doesn't have feelings for me, why is he hanging on? 28.1>43 The line is on about him being very cautious and careful as it seems that he has plans to begin something. What plans does it indicate, is it about a relationship?

Also, what does 54.4 signify regarding devotion? Does the hexagram signify devotion at all? Thanks.

 

[spica]

Willowfox,
many thanks to you.
I think I have found out some truths of the situation. The key is : "he was once in a relationship with her" This is a fact.

For those interested in the situation (at my expense )
He was once seeing the ****. And then they broke up. Heaven knows why I didnt know it. Then he was seeing me, and the **** did alot of transgressions to me, and him of course. She was, afterall a friend I blindly trusted and should i say was sincere towards.

I asked her what happened 4 months ago and she not only never told me, blocked me. I know she's guilty.
I tried asking my bf but not in a direct way and he just evaded it.
So today I asked him again
(note that we are not in the same location so this makes it harder)
and will wait for his reply tomorrow.
I am so glad this **** has been semi resolved.
Apart from asking the iching, I have tagged my water with the word "truth" to facilitate this.

Willowofx, you have answered alot of them correctly and I thank you for helping me and your expertise!

I asked alot of questiuons but just managed to save one hex, hope you can interpret it.can i expect a resolution?
Hex 58.3.5.6>14

Oh well, I believe in truth above all else and would dump that man if he ever did anything shady. The girl in question is definitely going to hell soon.

Thanks all.

Will i get what i want in the end:
50.1.5>1
Am i doing the right thing?
11.4>34
will she be punished?
63.2>5
how can i expect him to reply?
18.2.4
:bows:

 

[willowfox]

can i expect a resolution?
Hex 58.3.5.6>14

I don't that you can expect a resolution, it speaks of empty gestures, therefore you need to look out for yourself here. Hex 14 is very beneficial for you as you will gain "clarity" into the situation and so put a stop to the monkey business going on behind your back.

Will i get what i want in the end:
50.1.5>1

It suggests yes after you have done a through spring clean, you need to throw the rubbish out.

Am i doing the right thing?
11.4>34

Yes just becareful how you go about it.

will she be punished?
63.2>5

Yes she will suffer but it will only be a temporary setback for her.

how can i expect him to reply?
18.2.4

Probably try and sweet talk you but it looks like he won't be able to make his mind up about how to really sort the problem out, so the problem will be unresolved, what he really wishes is to do nothing and hope the problem will go away of its own accord.

 

[spica]

Hi willowfox, thank you.
There are a few more revealing questions, after I have read wilhelm with your interps, they are clearer. And it is right, regarding the fact he would probably sweep it away again.

Does he love me? 46? 53
Will he be with me 35.2 ?64
Will he change his ways? 11.3.5?60

From the top (i think you missed)
will he be with her? 5.4

Thanks for this :bows:

 

[willowfox]

Does he love me? 46.1,5,6 >53

Love is too strong a word, as he does have feelings for you.

Will he be with me 35.2 > 64

This suggests for a while no, but later there is a strong possibility.

Will he change his ways? 11.3.5 > 60

Not really, so don't expect miracles then you won't be disappointed.

will he be with her? 5.4

This suggests no as he realizes the trouble that he already is in, as being with her again would really upset the applecart.

 

[spica]

Thanks willowfox.

I have some more hexagrams hope you or others don't mind them again. I will write my feedback for whichever you would like.

Is she a threat to me? 41.1.3.5>57
Should I hold on to him? 8.3.4.5>62
Is he sincere towards me? 45.1.3>49
If I ask him directly if he is involved with her how will he reply? 5.2.1>22
Is he someone I can trust? 57.1.2.3>42
Will she still try to 'seduce' him? 1.3.4.5>41
What must I beware of her for? 9.3.4>10
Will he be honest when I talk to him? 1.2.3.4.6>3
Is it best if I stop seeing him? 43.4>5
Can I expect he would want to marry eventually? 51.2.4>19
IF I tell him about what she did to me will it be a good move? 20.3>53
Was she a bad friend to me? 33.6>31

Is being with him what I really want? 16 no changing lines (Hmmmm)
Is being with me what he really wants? 5.6>9 (Am wondering what the 3 guests mean, hmm)
Is being with him what she really wants or shes being jealous? 11 no changing lines
Why did she do what she did to me? 47.2.3>31 (Interesting...)
What does he expect from me? 20.4>12


Also, if you ask the Yi a question like, what can I expect from a relationship, and it gives 8 unchanging, and you ask again another day it gives 23, what conclusions can you draw from it?


An update: I did ask him, but never mentioned it exactly and he asked me why am I imagining things and that he's keeping a secret from me. Willowfox, you're right because the situation wasn't yet resolved, am I was left thinking I was the wrong party. BUT, later I said I didn;'t imagine, but things just 'come' to me, and he didn't say anything else.

Thanks

 

[willowfox]

Is she a threat to me? 41.1.3.5>57 Yes in the fact that she is a rival.

Should I hold on to him? 8.3.4.5>62 In truth no but can you see the truth?

Is he sincere towards me? 45.1.3>49 Suggests no he is not being sincere as he does not really know what he wants exactly.

If I ask him directly if he is involved with her how will he reply? 5.2.1>22 Probably by trying to avoid the conversation hoping it will just blow over but if it comes to the crunch then he may become rattled and nasty.

Is he someone I can trust? 57.1.2.3>42 I don't think that you can as this guy seems to have hidden agendas and motives.

Will she still try to 'seduce' him? 1.3.4.5>41 She may well take her time and consider it, and then maybe try later.

What must I beware of her for? 9.3.4>10 That she is more powerful than you at the moment and therefore you are now having problems with these people.

Will he be honest when I talk to him? 1.2.3.4.6>3 Looks like no he won't be honest.

Is it best if I stop seeing him? 43.4>5 Suggests that you should see what he has to say before making any break.

Can I expect he would want to marry eventually? 51.2.4>19 I very much doubt it.

IF I tell him about what she did to me will it be a good move? 20.3>53 Suggests yes go ahead.

Was she a bad friend to me? 33.6>31 I don't really think so.

 

[willowfox]

Is being with him what I really want? 16 no changing lines It appears that it is what you want deep down.

Is being with me what he really wants? 5.6>9 This suggests at present no but whether he changes his mind later, then you will have to wait and see.

Is being with him what she really wants or shes being jealous? 11 no changing lines She is not jealous, but she would like to be with him.

Why did she do what she did to me? 47.2.3>31 Probably feeling depressed, neglected, a feeling people were acting against her, feeling put upon.

What does he expect from me? 20.4>12 Understanding

 

[spica]

Thank you Willowfox for taking the time
xie xie ni

I think I will now lay off the hexs for a while as I received a few 23>4
Bet it means anger/violence hahaha..

 

[spica]

Hello,

I thought a conclusion to this would be good. The girl is jealous of my and his relationship, and has been trying to pull the strings to her favour, because she wants what she can't have. But this man is my soulmate and the splitting image of me.
She was my good friend for 10 years, and due to her behaviour, she has lost my trust and now I see her as nothing short of a pest.

I apologize now for asking the iching so many questions - and willowfox for taking the pains to interpret.

This would be the last post on this because I have found the answer.


Thanks :bows: