on relationship 64>32 and 55>11

[literunner]

Hello,

I made attempts to smooth things over with my ex toward reunion this weekend. Our meeting was quite strained and brief--my ex was angry and harsh, saying she had decided to move on and was now with a new person--that 4 months had passed and what else did I expect. My ex didn't want to talk much past that and our meeting was cut short due to her angry mood--and the new person was apparently there, waiting inside.
This was not a happy situation, all around. From this, I saw that my ex has lots of angry feelings about things still--something I could not have seen unless we met in person. I left feeling quite bad and have taken time to step back from the situation and feel my feelings and detach to get broader perspective. This is someone I care deeply and genuinely about. My heart and intuition is what told me to go to my ex. I shared that with my ex. There is more I want to share, if my ex wants to go forward with me at some point.


I asked the Yi:
"What is the best I can expect now with C and I?" and got
55.2.4> 11

"How is it possible, if at all, to forge a romantic relationship with C?"
64.3.6>32

and "what is the right thing thing to do in relation to C and I?"
3.5>24

Thank you for the support, it's greatly appreciated and valued. And thank you for the help with interpreting the Yi's counsel.

Blessings,
:bows:

 

[willowfox]

Well done, that's one major hurdle that you have now confronted, you know that she is angry and obviously blames you, so now you know the score.

"What is the best I can expect now with C and I?" and got 55.2.4> 11

Line 55.2 says that you have met with anger and mistrust, and the possibility that there is now a third person involved, so the best thing to do right now is to be patient and sincere with her and hopefully your light will be seen.

Line 55.4 Eventually the anger and resentment will give way and then she will be more open to correspond with you.

"How is it possible, if at all, to forge a romantic relationship with C?" 64.3.6>32

Something is possible but certainly not now as there needs to be a change of circumstances and it also calls for someone to help you out as well. So, stay still and don't push the issue just yet.

and "what is the right thing thing to do in relation to C and I?" 3.5>24

You will need to be patient, and very slowly, quietly work on her resistance and anger.