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akath19

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Hey all!

Currently I'm in a bit of a rough patch with my best friend (she's a girl and I'm a boy), I realize that I need to stay away from her for a while in order for things to cool down and return to their natural state/size, however I've been puzzled by things she said right before we parted ways for a while.

According to that I wanted to know who am I to her? so I asked the Yi and got 14.4.6 > 11 (thanx to Samgirl for the question, wouldn't have thought of it myself).

Now I'm really reluctant to interpret the answer due to the fact that right now, my concept of her and our relationship is not the best, also I don't know what she thinks because one day she says great things and the next she tears everything down!!


Can anyone help me with this one??, please??
 

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well it could be that she was angry with you cause you did not always act the way she want you to act, by letting you go (giving up this attitude) she finds her inner peace

never the less you remain important to her - so maybee its saying: now that the attitude has changed a new defintion of your relationship is possible: the possession of great

just a very free interpretation and it could easly be wrong as my access to the i ching is very fresh :)

but maybee it fits for you, good luck anyway
 
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akath19

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Thanx wanderer, that might sound right but our situation is different, actually we've been best friends for 5 years but recently romantic feelings started developing for one another, I tried to pursue them in a very relaxed fashion, however she got scared and decided to push me away.

Three weeks ago she said "I want to have a relationship with you, but it's more comfortable for me to say no", she also said "I'm scared of falling for you and I'm scared that you'll insist on being with me".

Two weeks ago she said "I've always seen you as a friend and I've never wanted anything with you, we should stop being friends".


Now, I know that she wants to be with me, but she's dead scared of being vulnerable, so that's why I think she's pushing me away. I asked the question because I know that even though we're apart, there's something special going on.

Does anyone else have another interpretation or another question suggestion for my situation??
 

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