opinions 50.6, 49.1, 45.3

[dragona]

Hello everyone, I am trying to stop myself from posting but it is hard to interpret when you are not able to be 100% objective. However, tried to have blank mind while casting about this.
Dissapointed by people lately and probably they feel the same for me.
Felt I should ask Yi about 2 different people with who I had first pleasant, then unpleasant interaction and wonder how to relate in the future.

What is xx opinion/view of me(xx is male, close) 50.6<32
Even though it is seen as auspicious, having rings of jade - material that is very enduring, combined with hex 32, gives me the idea that he has forged his stand about me and will not change it, however I may feel about it.

How should I percieve xx 49.1<31
Like someone who has given up on me (in a nutshell)?

How xy sees me/opinion (female,family member - we are not in an agreement on a family matter) 45.3<31
We are supposed to be working together on the same cause, but she seems to think I am not doing a good job of it. Trying to convince her otherwise would be a waste of time for me as I need to persevere in doing things in way I think is right, regardless my dissapointment in her attitude, I need to loose the attachment?
Or she feels that about me?

I could use an objective take and thank you for everything so far, d.:bows::hugs:

 

[precision grace]

all your relating hexagrams are encouraging, perhaps you are just too close to everything

your male friend thinks very highly of you


for 49.1 I refer you to your own comment on someone else's thread: http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?t=15089
"acting on the offensive-is permissible, in times like those referred to here, only in dealing with the mistakes of one's own people"

45.3 is a downer, as this person sees you in negative light or you both see eachother that way; I like what Lise says about this line: "For a coherent whole one needs consistent perseverance. Do not find out if it works - make it work. Feelings will always be changeable, one cannot demand perfection and constancy. Just hold on to it."

 

[dragona]

are relating hexagrams enough?
for the 50.6<32 I am surprised - I am being kept in the dark
so that is why I asked and gotten 49.1 and now I am not sure if things could change or not (that example was quite different in nature, IMO)
but when it comes to 45.3, I read it as not let my personal feelings get to me Treat emotions in the way a horse should be handled.LiSe comments.
From Hilary`s interpretation I get the idea to give up on any kind of agreement making. I feel it is just hopeless in both cases.