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any thoughts?
Yup. I associate the father as yang force, which tends toward conditional acceptance; spoils the child by being too harsh or strict or forceful, whereas the mother spoils the child by giving in to them, overprotecting, making excuses for them, etc. Conditional love is associated with the father, and unconditional love with the mother. Either or both can spoil a child. 18, to me, is first about recognizing those influences in ones life, and then being shown a way to progress over, under or around it. Not always easy to undo what's been done though, and I think not possible sometimes. But we can still, to some degree, un-spoil ourselves or a situation.
Agreeing with Bruce here.
What I intended to mean by Fixation hearkens back to the image of wind stopped by the mountain, turning stagnant. It's a fixed behavior pattern that doesn't want to learn or change. These are especially problematic when they solved a problem once (or helped to avoid facing a problem) but no longer work. The behavior keeps repeating in spite of being dysfunctional.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).