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goddessliss

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In recent months a group of people have started socialising every months or so although it's becoming more frequent as time goes on.
We are having a planned get together this weekend and there is one woman who's coming this weekend who's been hesitant in the past about joining in.
I'm not that keen on her as she plays the victim role continually and is very negative to the point it puts me off going myself.
The only reason she's been asked is because my close friend feels sorry for her and sometimes agrees to meet up with J for coffee, but sometimes she get's sick of J mentality and asks if I'll come along to give her strength.

Show me a picture of how J will fit in this weekend at this social function Hex 36.1>15
Oh that sort of says it all - looks like she'll play the victim role.

What can I do to keep the distance between J and I - Hex 2 unchanging
Do nothing.

How can I convince my friend to let this friendship? go - Hex 5.5>11
Relax, enjoy myself be PATIENT.

thanks - Liss
 
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goddessliss

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I'm still not keen to go. It's tomorrow. For some reason she just leaves a bad taste in my mouth.
We have lived through very similar experiences in terms of divorce, being taken advantage of and children leaving home but I hate it when I'm lumped in the same category as her as there is no way I have the same attitude as her. - Liss
 

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