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Please give me advice about what to do about my relationship with X?

MeltingPot247

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I am ready to admit to myself that I love someone. I've been single or at least not fully committed to anyone my whole adult life.

Anyway now I've been shot in the heart, and I don't like it.

I had been contemplating staying away from this person I have since June last year...but have been unsuccessful this far.

I asked yi "Please give me advice on what to do about my relationship with X" and received hexagram 16.2.4 to 7.

Line 2

'Boundaries turning to stone,
Not for a whole day.
Constancy, good fortune.'

Line 4

'Source of enthusiasm.
Great possessions gained.
Do not doubt.
Partners are gathered together as a hair clasp gathers hair.'

Hillary translation.

Kind of sounds like I shouldn't try to end or limit relationship according to line 2 and line 4 suggests being more confident about this relationship??

Receiving 7 for the army is not surprising, considering the man in question is a former soldier.

Please help me with your interpretations too.

I appreciate any feedback.

Thank you kindly.
 

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Hi Melting Pot,

funny to read you've been "shot in the heart" by a former soldier.

Anyway, hexagram 16 is quite a heartbeat. When you read the trigrams, then you are susceptible with "earth" as a lower inner trigram, whereas with "thunder" as an upper trigram there is sort of a percussion, a shock, thunder to be heard.

Not sure about line 16.2: it might advise you not to be all too severe, to release. And 16.4 could be promising - yes, you might be more confident and let go.

Yes, the army - there is, obviously, a fear of being hurt. It is the water trigram, connected with danger, the heart and blood, as a lower trigram … and, you should be strong enough …
 

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Mandarin_23, at time of writing I didn't notice the pun of being shot in the heart by this guy, who is indeed a former soldier as I mentioned and you picked up.

We have a lot in common, but also different approaches to life, except I have become more regimented since having his influence in my life. I used to be wishy washy and go with the flow (and now he thinks he is how I used to be, but I think not �� hmmm lol).

I think we are rubbing off on each other which is weird and unusual for me.

Good friends, and easy going in each others company. Very unexpected turn of events, with regards to how we relate to one another. I always leave him learning something new about myself, what I want and where I want to go in life.

Thank you for your insights:)
 

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