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vikk

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Hi everyone!

I was floored today!
My husband who I am divorcing asked to work on our relationships!!!
I am very scared!
WHAT does he WANT?
I aske the oracle why he wants to work in our relationship and got 10.3>1
Argghh!!! He is not here for something good!!!
What is happening?????
Thank you!!!!
 

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Could it be that it is too costly for him to divorce you?

10-3 in my text: walking behind a tiger with blurry vision and crippled legs, indicating high possibility of misfortunes to come.

Supplented by 9-3 (note: i use another convention which is used by many other IC books): There are some tangible but limited resources at stake. Chinese text specifically stated fighting between hudsband and wife.
 

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Hi!

Thank you for the reply!

I am not sure it is about money - we are filing uncontested divorce and there is nothing to share between us (no property, no children, nothing).

Could the line refer to divorce fees? But it is nothing - just 700. Because of this 700 he wants to work on our relationship? It sort of doesn't make sense to me. Wouldn't working on our broken marriage be more "costly" to him?

Are there any other interpretations?

Thank you again!
 

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10.3 Seeing only with one eye.

Perhaps your partner is afraid of what life has in store for him as a single person. Maybe you two should book a session with a marriage councilor to help him get let go and move on, 1. Create a fresh start.

Rosada
 

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Hi Rosada!

So happy you are here.:)

Could 1 mean possible new beginning for both of us together? A fresh start for two us? Sort of new fresh us?

Thank you!
 

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Hi
I am no i ching expert (I'm learning) but when I get 10 it's usually something to do with a person that is higher in society than me - a boss or someone that counts and I had better treat them with respect.
I sometimes ignore how to behave in society (rules and things that people expect you to say or do) and so I ruin relationships, and when I cast 10 comes up: I've trailed on somebody's tail.

Don't know if it can be of any help to you.
It's your husband so apparently your own level (not higher, not lower)
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Yes, I could certainly see how 10.3 - 1 could mean your husband doesn't want to go on alone and sincerely would like to make a fresh start. Duh, I didn't even think of that possibility!
 

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Hallo Vikk

how did this play out? Was there some hidden motives ofhim?
I got this line today for a reunion with a friend which I can’t explain ..
 

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Hi Olga,

There was a lot of back and forth for him - he wanted things to work, then he didn’t, then wanted be together again. But then we moved back in together and little by little made things work again.
 
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For me, hexagram 10 is saying that how we do something (e.g. in a respectful , honest way) might be more important than what we do (say, to step on a tiger's tail, or to seek divorce or reconciliation). So, maybe 'respectful conduct' on both your parts won out in the end, regardless of what you had stepped in or upon!

Best, D
 
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